(Closed) Just Darn Crazy! Do I have to invite her?

posted 7 years ago in Family
  • poll: Would you invite her to save face?
    Heck no! Don't invite the crazy lady : (25 votes)
    69 %
    I would invite her and pray she didn't start anything. : (4 votes)
    11 %
    I'm not sure. : (7 votes)
    19 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    3758 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    No, no, no. I don’t think you should have to, I certainly wouldn’t. You don’t need that crap on your guys’s day! It is supposed to be a happy day for you, you shouldn’t have to listen to that at all let alone your wedding day. You probably don’t have to invite everybody, i wouldn’t invite anyone i don’t actually want being there. And don’t feel bad about it, if she wonders why she wasn’t invited i would tell her. I wish you luck =) and Merry Christmas!

    Post # 4
    Member
    1269 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    I wouldn’t invite her.  And yes, both my Fiance and I invited some of our family and not all.  We treated them like friends or coworkers.  Who do we see and who do we not and that’s how we invited family. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    2373 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2008

    If she’s abusive, I would not invite her. Sometimes you have to cut toxic out of your life.

    Post # 6
    Member
    279 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Its better to risk a little bit of drama before your wedding day by not inviting her than to risk having drama ON your wedding day. If she is that much drama its just not worth it.

    Post # 7
    Member
    7975 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    How would she react if she wasn’t invited? Is she the type to crash the wedding, or to forbid the rest of the family from attending?

    How does the rest of the family view her? Do they still respect her/listen to her despite her behavior? Would they be upset if she wasn’t invited?

    Post # 8
    Member
    138 posts
    Blushing bee

    I see your point and this is tough.

    Keep in mind that the people that you are inviting should be there to celebrate your union and bring you great blessings and wishes. As you work on your guest list those are the things you should think about. I’m taking off my planner & etiquette hat and say…… no I would not invite her personally.

    I would want to be surrounded by love, peace, happiness, and well wishes….not having emotional flashbacks on my once in a lifetime wedding day.

    Post # 10
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    3257 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    You don’t HAVE to invite someone just because he or she is “family.” If she is abusive and hurts your family, don’t invite her. It’s not worth the risk that she may start drama on your big day.

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