(Closed) Just don't know what to do anymore. Advice please?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Have you asked him why he doesn’t like to go out and do things? Has he always been like that? That would really bother me. If he has always been like this, I think you just have to decide if this is what you want in a husband. If his mood has changed, have a talk with him about why he’s lost interest in going out.

Post # 4
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3553 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Being unmotivated, not wanting to do things, and not wanting to plan a future sound like symptoms of depression to me. Have you tried talking to him about how he’s been feeling lately, and why he doesn’t want to do things?

Post # 5
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116 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Some people are more anti social and introverted than others, I think you should reevaluate your relationship because as age creeps up and kids come along its going to get a lot worse and more difficult to plan date nights.

If he can’t do it now what’s he going to be like in 10 years? 

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@Eckle:  +1 – I thought this could be a possibility too.

Is he way different than he used to be? How long has this been going on? If it’s a sudden change then maybe it’s just due to stress, but if he seems lethargic and sad as well then maybe it could be something more serious.

Maybe he’s just stuck in a rut, though. I know how school can do that. Maybe he’s worried about what the future holds job-wise.

 

 

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