(Closed) just feel bad for FI

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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13099 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’m sure she is interested but she is super busy with planning for your SIL (since she isn’t involved with planning for you and your FI).  So that is what is on her mind and at the fore-front of her thoughts.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Does your Fiance even care that she’s not showing interest in your wedding plans?  Have you tried to include her in the planning?  Traditionally, it is a bit different for the groom’s parents.  Your SIL is a bride and their daughter, so I’m assuming they are involved in planning because they are paying for it? 

Post # 5
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1798 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

When is your SILs wedding? If the date in your profile is correct and SILs wedding is sooner, she may be more concerned with getting things done for SIL first. As your wedding gets closer, she may be more involved. A lot of people sometimes think that two years is too early to plan a wedding, so your Mother-In-Law may still think yours is too far away. Also, typically the bride and her mom are more involved in the planning than the groom and his mom.

Post # 6
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663 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2017 - Vegas Wedings

I do think it weird that she isnt more interested and actually changes the subject back to his sister when your wedding comes up. And asking about the wedding seems like a no brainer to me. Even if she is more involved in one, she should be emotionally invested in both. Does it bother your FI?

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