(Closed) Just for fun: the most ridiculous relationship you have ever been in

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 48
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Blushing bee

@Smurfylove82:  LOL!! I am glad I can laugh about it now. Actually, I think I laughed about it at the time because it was beyond being ridiculous.

Post # 49
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I was young and stupid, but I dated the captain of my college basketball team. He was 6’7, tons of muscle and so hot! He never wanted to call what we had exclusive which I should have seen as the first red flag. I knew he was with other girls, but was somehow in denial. I finally woke up and realized I was allowing him to treat me like shit. I broke things off, and several months later started dating my Fiance. I run into the ex all the time because we both live in the same town, and work in the same complex of various business’. His co-worker is my sister’s best friend and she told him I was engaged, she said you should have seen the expression on his face. Years after I broke it off he kept trying to get back together, saying he finally realized how much he liked me after I was gone. Too bad buddy!!! I’m with the man of my dreams now, and you were just a stop over until I met him!

Post # 50
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Yeah, a bagpipe playing firefighter sounds like heaps of fun right?  He was moody.  He spent very little of his spare time with me and most of it with his “brothers” and blowing in those *bleeping* bagpipes.  He also had a fairly tiny “firehose”.  In the end I decided to call it quits, which was good because I’m marrying the next man I dated.  🙂

Post # 51
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

….I dated a guy who snuck into my sleepaway camp in the middle of the night and woke me up telling me he needed to talk to me. Later (I kicked him out before he could really explain himself) I found out that he just he missed me. He had sent me a letter saying literally “We need to talk” and just that on fancy paper a few days before he showed up. I had thought that his mom died or something from the way he was acting. We broke up when I got home.

Oh and he was 18 and I was 16, so the camp threatened to have him arrested for trespassing. Up until then he seemed totally normal (we had been together for 8 months). It was my first real boyfriend so I didn’t really see any bad signals. Apparently he was just a little too attached to me.

Post # 52
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Smurfylove82:  LOL it sounds like you were with my ex, minus the drugs. He fancied himself a white rapper, but in a hipster underground sort of way. 

Post # 53
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I didn’t really date… But was regularly hooking up with a guy who was still in love with his ex. Who was married to someone else. They ended up getting back together, while she remained married. The last I heard she was knocked up, and didn’t know whether it was this guys or her husbands. I think the guy i was with was marrying someone else too. High class, right there folks.

Post # 54
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

When I was 18 I was casually dating a guy (A) who I was really into. I wanted to make it a serious relationship, he didn’t. So I broke it off and started dating his best friend (B) to get back at him. He sounded so good on paper; going to a really good school, rich family etc. but man, oh man was he dull. We lasted 3 months. After that I actually started dating A again and we dated for 3 years.

Post # 55
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Ugh! My current SO and soon to be Fiance!!! Call mine, the “douche bag” because that’s exactly what he was! I was the typical good girl. Very shy, but never did anything wrong, always made good choices… very boring haha 😉

Then I got it in my head that I didn’t deserve anything good. In walks the DB. He smoked pot and drank heavily everyday. Gave me an ultimatium to sleep with him (even though I was a virgin) or I could leave. I didn’t beleive him, and he just didn’t listen. He went to jail for drug charges and had me “wait” the couple of weeks until he got out. He would be verbally abusive all the time, was always pushing me into things I didn’t want to do (obviously). But lucky for me after a little under 3 months I woke up, said I could do a whole lot better then that! Never let him put one more finger on me in any way…

A week later I met my now SO (and soon to be finance!!!!) and havn’t looked back since! He treats me like we all deserve, yes he can make me crazy but I know he would never hurt me, and is always so patient with me given everything that happend.

Post # 56
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Well, the most ridiculous was this guy who wasn’t by any standard sense “attractive.”  He was tallish and awkward with big ears, pasty skin, bad teeth, and generally chubby.  Nothing that individually would be unnattractive but together, he was just very “eh”. 

I’m not superficial, so this on it’s own wouldn’t be bad.

But he was NEVER faithful to me.  It was really in a lot of ways  my own fault.  He kept telling me that he didn’t want a commitment, but we agreed that if we ever started to see anyone else, we would stop seeing each other.

I found out about the first girlfriend he had at an aerobics class.  Long story short, they had been dating a year at that point (he and I had been together two and a half years).

Teh sad part is that I let it go on for almost four years.  Yup, and he cheated on me the WHOLE time.  I finally broke up with him, but it was TOUGH!  I don’t know why I was so stuck on him. 

Post # 57
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Hah. Back in high school I “dated” a guy for 4 days and then found out he was cheating on me (that quickly!). They ended up getting engaged a few years later but she broke it off. Good girl.

 

Post # 58
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Oh lord, wouldn’t call it a relationship, but…dating experience? I was 23, had recently ended a nearly 4 year relationship and I met this waiter. He was 40. And an ex-felon. Had been in jail for 3 years for dealing drugs. He had no car. No license. And I was INFATUATED. Obviously I was a genius in my early 20s. Fun fact: he found me on facebook recently and we chat every once in awhile. He got the next girl he dated after me pregnant and they’re a blissfully happy family together now!

Post # 59
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

 A jazzpianist keeping himself distanced all the time, but then would close in, to distance himself again. We had misunderstandings all the time.  Ugh. We were only dating though, but geez he could play the piano. Feels like the whole time we were dating was taken from a melancholic french movie of Kieslowski.

 

Post # 60
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Buzzing bee

Mine was with a guy I met while working at a restaurant. I went on a couple dates with him but eventually decided I didn’t want to keep seeing him because his ego was huge and he thought he was gods gift to women. When I started blowing him off he would call/text/showing up at my work to tell me about all the women he was ignoring because he was so into me. It was weird. Like a month later he was still showing up to my work and I overheard him telling a friend of mine about HIS WIFE AND CHILD. WTF. In the month we dated he had convienently forgotten to mention those little parts. He said they were separated but I don’t believe a word he ever said to me was true.

Post # 61
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

When I was studying abroad in Hong Kong, my Swedish roommate and I started having serious troubles second semester. So I started dating this guy who was also an American, and he was a grad student so he had his own dorm room, no roommate. I slept over there most every night.

We were the absolute WORST couple — nothing really in common, never saw eye to eye, he irritated the crap out of me which made me snap at him all the time … one time he tried to break up with me because I was seriously being such a B to him constantly, so I cried and begged him to take me back, saying I knew I was wrong and I could change.

Y’all, I REALLY didn’t like my roommate. I would have done anything to have him take me back if it meant I could stay in his room instead of mine. Ha!

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