(Closed) Just found out my fiance of 6 yrs cheated . . . other girl is pregnant

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 137
121 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2009 - Cathedral of the Sacred Heart & The Jefferson Hotel

My heart goes out to you but as Mr. Bee said, you are handling this with such grace, you should be PROUD of yourself, not embarrassed at all! what he did is on HIM, that doesn’t reflect on you. Sending lots of hugs your way!

Post # 138
1303 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

INSANITY.  My heart goes out to you. Stay strong

Post # 139
2207 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Disgusting abhorrent behavior on his part.  You got a ton of useful advice on here, so I wont go on, but I have to say that, like Mr Bee, I am so impressed with how gracious and tactfully you are handing this…HUGS

Post # 140
948 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2020 - Coyaba Resort, Montego Bay

Hello again, Caliwed!  Just checking back to see how you’re doing – give us an update when you can.  Hugs!!!

Post # 141
3871 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

All I can say is I’m so sorry you are going through this.  Hugs!!!  If you want more support or advice, keep posting on WB.  We are on your side!  (lol, I feel like an insurance commercial! )  (Did I make you laugh at least?)

Post # 143
972 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m really proud of you Cali, you are truly an inspiration. The situation you’re in is not easy but you’ve handled it with such class and dignity. You are a very smart woman and I wish you nothing but the best with all of your future endeavors. :0D

Post # 144
8351 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

Good for you cali.

I am glad you came back to make an update. I have been checking. You are awesome; don’t every forget that.

I hope you stay on the bee, even if it is just to visit Smile

Post # 145
31 posts
  • Wedding: October 2020 - Outside a rustic b&b in Big Bear Lake

Caliwed my heart hurts for the pain he’s put you in. Your strength and grace through this is very admirable. I’ll be praying for you and know that we are all here for you. Feel free to PM me

Post # 146
17 posts
  • Wedding: July 2009

I’m sending you hugs and i’m so sorry that you are experiencing this but you are a strong person.  You are a strong person because you are reaching out for help by writing this post.  You are strong and will get through this.  Please remember that the fog will not last forever.  Feelings are temporary, good times pass and tough times pass.  Perhaps you can also find a group of women that have gone through what you have gone through and can help you get through this tough time.  Keep your friends close to keep you motivated. 

Post # 147
646 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

HOLY CRAP!!!!!!!!!  I am so, so, so sorry!!  I cannot believe what a horrible thing he’s done and that email to her is unbelievable!!!!  I’m totally disgusted for you.  Definitely keep reaching out for support whether it’s here or elsewhere.  It will make this time easier (if only just a little bit).

Post # 148
45 posts
  • Wedding: May 2013

OMG darling i am so sorry. And i know that doesnt begin to cover it. Me and my fiancee have been together 6 years and just reading your situation, i couldnt even put myself in your position without breaking into tears. Theres no amount of advice or support i can offer. Im so sorry. and im wishing the best for you.

Post # 149
17 posts

Wow.. just wow.. I am so sorry this happened to you. Praying for your strength <3 Better things are ahead for you! Hugs

Post # 150
521 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012 - Salvage One, Chicago

I know this is old, but it came up as a suggested link…This is a horrible situation and I’m glad you didn’t end up marrying him, but does no one else think that 6 years is a loooong time to make any man abstain from sex and not think he might ‘find another outlet?’

Post # 151
336 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

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@JBing:  It was obviously something they agreed on. Are you seriously giving this man an excuse to cheat?

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