(Closed) Just found out my grandma died 3 months ago through a Google search.

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

thats terrible ๐Ÿ™

im so sorry you had to find out that way. *hug*

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Aww, I’m so sorry ๐Ÿ™ What a terrible way to find out that news.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

๐Ÿ™

I’m sorry for your loss and for the unsettling way you found out about it. Maybe you can create a memorial page for her that would be more of a tribute to her life.

You are not the product of a horrible human being.  Even though some of your genetic material may have been provided by someone selfish who has made poor choices, your choices indicate that the people, events, and relationships that have helped raise you have made you a good person.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I have no words for this other than….I’m so sorry!

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper

/hugs I’m do sorry you had to find out that way.

Maybe you could host your own memorial service? Frame a couple of pictures and invite some close friends and family over for a potluck to celebrate her life. It doesn’t have to be fancy and I’m sure she would have appreciated you doing something like that to honor her.

Post # 9
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Blushing bee

@Miss Fish: I’m so sorry to hear you are going through this. I went through something very similar with my paternal grandmother. It is largely the reason (if not just the straw that broke the camel’s back) that I am no longer in contact with my biological father. It’s so frustrating/maddening that other people have to go through this as I know how much hurt it has caused me over the years. I like to think we learn from these people how not to be. much like what

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Post # 10
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Oh, this is awful and just breaks my heart. You have my sympathy. I am so sorry.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

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@Miss Fish: oh, no..I’m so sorry to hear that ๐Ÿ™ did she have any friends or favorite nurses at the nursing home? I’m sure they’d love a memorial service. And even if it’s only a few people, it’s the ones that count, which make it worthwhile.

Post # 14
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

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@Miss Fish: I’m so sorry that you had to find out that way. What your father did was absolutely deplorable. I know his kind all too well as I’m also the product of a deadbeat dad.

Post # 16
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Oh my goodness I’m so sorry. I can’t imagine finding out this news that way. I can’t believe your dad did that (or rather didn’t do anything). I hope you are able to find peace and closure.

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