(Closed) Just found out this happened at my wedding and it really irks me

posted 7 years ago in Reception
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Wow, that is crazy, people have some cojones!  In a weird sort of way though, you have to admit it is sort of funny!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I might think it was amusing IF there wasn’t an open bar they were taking advantage of (I hope there wasn’t!) and she hadn’t requested a song.

Otherwise, if they were just dancing incognito, it just makes for a story to say you had crashers.

Sorry you’re upset though!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I would be more upset about the Kings of Leon song.  The singer’s voice makes my head hurt.

It’s a shame someone had to crash, but at least you didn’t notice until after it was over!  I’m glad it didn’t ruin your fun.

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

That is so rude! I’m assuming that they didn’t get dinner or anything, so that they didn’t cost you anything, or did they? Anyway I can’t believe she had the balls to request a song!

Stuff like that really bothers me, even if I know it doesn’t matter–it’s like I can’t stand it when someone thinks that have just pulled one over on me, and gotten away with it. That would bother me after the fact too. But obviously you had the kind of awesome fun wedding that makes strangers want to crash it, so that’s good I guess?

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

PEOPLE ARE NUTS!!!  Well at least you have a funny story to tell people:)

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Wow, that was beyond rude! What a trashy thing to do.

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Not surprising though… people are downright awful.  It’s too bad that you didn’t realize it at the time you could have pushed her over the edge!!!

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Hahaha – I’m sorry you’re upset…but it is a funny story!  Hopefully it will become a hilarious tale to tell in time 🙂

Post # 12
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Busy bee

I’m sorry you’re upset but at least you know your wedding was good enough to have some wedding crashers, now how many people can say that!

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

You know what? We had wedding crashers too! And they were one of my favorite parts 🙂 I was flattered that they would want to come to our party instead of the OTHER wedding they were originally at (some of them were groomsmen in tuxes!!). One of my favorite memories is these random people in the soul train line and I said to FH, “Who are they?” And he just says, “Keep going!” 

It’s annoying that they had the nerve to request a song, but I agree with those who say – be flattered that they wanted to be at your party! I just hope they didn’t take anything from your bar or buffet… I know our wedding crashers didn’t, as I kept an eye on them!

Post # 14
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Well look at it this way…if requesting a poor song was the worst thing she did you are lucky…she could have gotten into a ton of pics or something like that.  And now you have a good story to tell people about your wedding crashers!    But a side note…that was pretty rude of the couple.  I’d be pissed now too…but later you’ll like the story you get(hopefully).

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

o wow, some ppl have alot of nerve. I cant even imagine just being like ‘hey, that wedding looks fun i think ill just hang out’. Sorry this happened to you but like the above poster said, it could have been worse, not that it in anyway makes it right or legitimate. 

Post # 16
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

We had the same problem! Ours was at a hotel down the shore (off season-ish) and there was a group of guys oddly overdressed for just having drinks on the lawn. They cat called at us while we did our wedding party photos, and they turned up in our WEDDING PHOTOS when the photographer posted the proofs. I know I shouldn’t be so upset, but frankly, it pissed me off. Weddings are EXPENSIVE, and meant to be shared with friends and family, not obnoxious, Vince Vaughn idol worshipping mooches looking for free booze and hoping to pick off drunk female guests.

*fuming*

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