(Closed) ‘just found your invite under a pile of crap, we won’t be going’

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
7777 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Honestly, you seem to have a lot of issues with family from this and your other posts. It seems to me you will be much happier if you just write them off as being rude and not let it bother you.

Yes, this was a very rude response… but some people just aren’t worth the aggravation to get upset over.

Post # 4
450 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I am so sorry. I can’t believe how bad you must feel. I learned something a while ago. People put a lot of work into weddings. Small details are hardly small. While you can’t change other people’s actions, we can only change how we react to them. I RSVP right away now. I offer to stay and help clean up. I write a thank you note to those who hosted the wedding and the couple telling them what a wonderful time I had. 

Just remember some people don’t mean to be rude… they are just daft.



Post # 5
573 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

People are rude, enough said. I agree with PP, do your best to just let it roll of your shoulders 🙂 

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