- 6 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013 - UK
Hello there! I just formally got engaged two days ago. The response has been lovely, but I can’t help but feel a bit overwhelmed by people making loads of suggestions already. You know, like:
– You should totally let my friend bake! She’s an amazing baker! Only she lives on the other side of the country…
-Oooooh, I can get you a great deal on wedding jewellery etc etc
They are doing it because they love me and are excited for me… but did anyone else find it just a teeny bit… scary? This wedding thing is like a machine, sucking up otherwise logical people and making them obsess over invites etc. My poor Fiance is already terrified because I mentioned things which had not occurred to him, like “engagement photos” and “videography”. He keeps mumbling things in a dazed way like “oh God, what have I done… she’s going to turn into a crazy Bridezilla on me”, and shuffling around with a sort of glazed expression on his face.
Anyone else feel the same?