- 5 years ago
- Wedding: April 2018
Today I get a snarky message from my step-kid, apparently she’s been playing around with the side of the family that Mr. 99 and I don’t see or speak to any longer, and someone over there decided to stir the step-kid pot for me…neat.
Her message was something along the lines of:
I found out all the horrible things you’ve said about me and my man, I won’t be judged by you or anyone and I’d like an apology.
(after reading this I think I should have felt something…anything…there was nothing, especially since Mr. 99 and I have expressed nothing but love and concern for her which means she’s looking for a fight, or the disgruntled cretins Mr. 99 sprang from are using her to cause trouble… so I did what any person in my position would have done.)
and replied with only this:
She replies: What’s that supposed to mean? You think I’m being a cry-baby? I’m raising my son on my own with no help from anyone, you have no idea how hard it is.
So then I hit her with this:
Now she’s SUPER PISSED: If you aren’t going to take me seriously, you and Dad will never see my son again.
So since we’re taking the gloves off….here comes this:
Now comes: I don’t appreciate what you’re saying, I would never use my son to manipulate people, unlike my father, I’m a good person.
I was getting bored with this exchage, so I took it to creepy town…
So she asks, Do you even know who this is?
This photo says that I do
I think she’s figured out that I’m not going to engage in this “fight” with her, so then I get the guilt trip finale…
You can make fun of me all you want, I’m a good person and my life’s been hard because of bad people, no one understands what I’ve been through, you’ll never see or hear from me again. Oh and have a happy mother’s day.
So I closed it down with this…..
For the record, this young lady is very well taken care of in a family household where she pays for nothing, works part time and moved her drunk boyfriend in at the expense of everyone else….Mr. 99 and I have maintained healthy boundaries with her, but refuse to be pulled into her silliness…..our exchange today simply amused me