- 4 years ago
- Wedding: City, State
*facepalm* (in the nicest way possible)
*facepalm* (in the nicest way possible)
You sound like you’re 15. Seriously. all of your posts are you desperately trying to get back with someone who doesn’t want to be with you. Why do you think you can always “fix” these people? If someone wanted to be with you, they would. Stop being crazy
So No one thinks I can get him to want me again. Well, if I told u that after 14 months he still hadn’t said “I love you” back, and as soon as he finally did say he loved me and wanted a future w. R he tried to meet up at a bar with a single girl he’d been flirting with…. And that he said “I’m just warning you not to bring up marriage or the future again because I’ll get to my point of no return and dump you”… You wouldn’t have said he was very into me. Yet hr stayed with me for months after Al, that. He’s just different, cold and emotionally unavailable. But sureky someone out there has a partners like that and can give advice to help me win him back over and open up? Please?
zebra10: Nope, none of us have partners like that whom we have successfully “won back’ and got them to ‘open up’ because any of us in that situation have or would have gotten the hint by now and moved on.
I used to think your posts were entertaining. Now it’s just very very sad and frustrating.
zebra10: he stayed with you because you will put up with his crap. He’s not likely to find another woman that would. That’s not love.
Eventually he got to the point where you nagged him too much and he realized it wasn’t worth the effort. You might be able to win him back, but you need to stop being so freaking desperate. He’s probably lost what little respect he might have had for you. You also need to prove to him that you don’t require any emotional intimacy or long term commitment. Ever. That is hard to do when you’re clinging to his every word and action and clearly do need those things. Make yourself less available to him and he might come around…
This post can’t be real. After reading the last comment, you’ve said all bad things about him nothing positive, why would you want him back?? Why would someone ever want to be with this guy? I’m confused….
Bees I think OP may need some clinical help. I’d highly recommend not goading her; she seems fragile and I always worry what unstable posters like this might do to themselves. There’s help out there, OP <3
I’m really sure this isn’t the place for you, OP. You need to stop posting here. We can’t help you. We can’t help you. Please get help from a board certified psychologist. And maybe, honestly, write in to DR Phil. He is amazing at getting through to emotionally cold, distant people. You might just be perfect for his show.
zebra10: girl…. your crazy is on 10 these days. Turn it down a notch. You need to get off these boards and into a doctor to get you some serious help. You’re mentally unstable. No one here will help you because no one here would rightfully tell you to go back to a man who clearly just doesn’t want to be with you.
Stop responding to this thread people…. if we ignore it, maybe the crazy will just go away. Giving sound advice hasn’t worked so let’s just not waste our time.
He stayed because he could give you literally the bare minimum amount of attention and you eat that shit up. He hit the jackpot with you, it would be almost impossible to replace you because most women aren’t this self-depricating
Homegirl, Imma need you to open up your ears and listen: just because he stayed with you longer doesn’t mean he loves you. He loved doing whatever he wanted to you and clearly doesn’t respect you. The fact you told him on your second date you didn’t want to hook up and HOOKED UP ANWAYS just shows him how desperate you are to please him. He probably got bored with you and now banging his coworker. She probably was there when you called and they had a good laugh then had passionate sex.
Like for real, give it up. And why would you want him? He sounds like a sociopath to me. And you for real need help. I’m really upset I’m never going to hear about the vomit guy…what a waste.
I feel like this has to be fake because she literally has not listened to anyone at all. Just keeps repeating the same thing everytime. There’s a hundred women here offering you solid advice and you keep ignoring it completely and repeated shit you’ve said 100 times to justify something that can not be justified. Please get help because this shit is not healthy at all. If you had a daughter, would you want her to be acting like this and chasing a guy that treats her like that? Use your head.
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