(Closed) Just had a share…and vent some concerns (PICS included?)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3261 posts
Sugar bee

you dont look fat, you’re beautiful. just remember to feel confident on your wedding day, you’re going to look great!

Post # 4
2299 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Your arms are amazing and you do not look fat!

Post # 5
11390 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

You are not a “chubbers” at all! You look amazing!

Post # 6
1697 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

you have very beautiful features and look great in your dress!!! good to hear you focusing on the possitive no weight gain! I was just commenting on another posst I neer had body image issues til I got engaged!!! argh!

Post # 7
701 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2004

your arms arnt fat at all!! however if you have a look at how the celebs stand with their arms on their hips it gives the arms a more tonned look… but you might get tired of tanding tht way all the time lol! you look great in your dress!

Post # 8
167 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

This is downright silly. You are gorgeous and not one person on here is going to tell you that your arms are fat when they are not. I’m also a little offended at the word chubbers as my arms are bigger than yours.

Post # 9
14660 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@Lassroyale:  You look fine!  Just be confident and brush off anything anyone says.  I’m Chinese, so I know they can be very blunt also, they will say things like..”oh my goodness, you’re so skinny, doesnt your man make enough to feed you?” or “wow, you’re chubby, what have you been eating”… “you’re so tall”, “your hair is sooo long”… any observation they can make and nothing is off limits.  I dont even think they really think about what they say or really mean anything by it and just blurt out the first thing that comes to mind. 

Post # 10
2183 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011 - Florida Aquarium

You’re beautiful! Truly, there is NOTHING wrong with your arms. I had a similar experience at my second fitting, except it was my back. My seamstress convinced me that my dress fit perfectly and I looked wonderful in it. Maybe talking to your mom or a close friend would help? Also, if you’re really concerned, by honest and open with your photographer so that she can try to avoid angles that make you uncomfortable. Remember though, you see your “imperfections” in a way that no one else does. We are our own worst critics, of course. And just remember your husband loves you just as you are! (these are things I’m telling myself, and I think they’re working…)

Post # 11
573 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

You don’t look fat in those pictures to me at all and I see nothing wrong with your arms! You look great and will make a beautiful bride Smile

Post # 12
5110 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

You look amazing. I dont see your concerns! Just be a happy confident bride on your wedding day. 🙂

Post # 13
1561 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

YOU ARE GORGEOUS!  You look amazing in your dress! Do not worry!!



Post # 14
4824 posts
Honey bee

You risk the dress not fitting this late in the game if you lose weight, and you cant “tone” IE build muscle to make a difference in less than two weeks.

You can however feel good about yourself because you are gorgeous and if you eat healthy and exercise you will know you are being healthy which is good for you inside and out. Plus, exercise creates endorphins which will help your body image.

Post # 15
250 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

You look great in that dress!

Post # 16
1160 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would kill to have your body.

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