(Closed) Just had to uninvite family :/ need support

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1361 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I am so sorry πŸ™ Family drama is terrible and from what I understand they mistreated your mother who is mentally ill? Yeah I would not invite em under any circumstance, it is very brave of you to stand up for your mother like that. She must be proud

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee

@FutureMrsMcLaughin:  Wow. I’m so sorry your mom was mistreated and I admire the way you’ve stood up for her. While it must have been difficult to do, I think you absolutely did the right thing by disinviting them. Bravo.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

That’s horrible πŸ™ I was reading and wondering why would someone uninvite their relatives, but yeah I would’ve done the same :-/

Post # 7
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709 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’m just over in Spokane. You tell her to come visit anytime πŸ˜‰

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@FutureMrsMcLaughin:  OH SHIT! Sorry for the cursing but I would have lost it! You were extremely polite! I mean seriously!! What is wrong with them?! My goodness she is family you dont just not invite her to a family birthday party, and how rude is it to tell her once she is there that she isnt invited!!! I would have let them have a peace of my mind and my goodness she has a brain tumor and they pick on her! How dare they?!?! God and time will set them in their place but reading that made my blood boil! Good for you for uninviting them! Seriously I dont understand some people! You and your mom don’t need family like that.

 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

You absolutely did the right thing. Your letter was extremely polite (you’re a better person than I would be in this situation;)) but you told your cousin in no uncertain terms that such behaviour is unacceptable. I applaud you, and I’m sure your mom is very appreciative to have such a supportive daughter. Now you can enjoy your wedding with the people who love and support you and your mother and who deserve to be there.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@FutureMrsMcLaughin:  Your Fiance is so sweet to do that for you. That’s a smart decision.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@FutureMrsMcLaughin:  Huge huge huge cyber hugs! Bt I mean it isn’t just about the brain tumor (which is a whole other conversation) but you don’t just pick on people. I dont understand why people have to be just plain mean sometimes! Well the cocaine explains it some there must be some personality deficiencies there but ugh no I hate doing things that are proper just because they are supposed to be… Well screw that I feel like a lot of people are missing reality checks because everyone else doesnt want to be rude or hurt their feelings. And well some people need to be put in their place! And there is a difference between being mean and telling the truth and having people not like that. If they answer please let us know ok? 

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’m sorry you have to deal with this. I have always thought your such a lovely bee πŸ™ I know this was hard for you but I know in the long run you will be much happier on your big day. Hugs to you and your mom

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