(Closed) Just in it for the money…

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
276 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

You’re kind of being a bridezilla. He was first a guest at your wedding, and then you want him to work at it. He still has to bring his equipment, load it, unload it, setup, create your playlist…all things that are his JOB that he deserves to be payed his regular wage for.  You can’t expect people to do you favors just becasue. If different if he offered, and honestly if he wanted to do you a favor he would have offered already,

Post # 4
46415 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You are the one who is out of line. He was invited to your wedding and has chosen to remain a guest.

Post # 5
1144 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@corrin:I agree with PP you are being a little selfish. You can’t ask your guests for favors. He runs a company and can charge what he wants. You shouldn’t have asked in the first place if he would have offered my opinion would be different.

Post # 7
4887 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@corrin:  Hey now, don’t get so upset!  No where in your post did you mention that he approached you.  You said so yourself that you didn’t want to ask him, but went ahead anyway.  People are only responding to what you posted, we don’t know back stories.

Post # 8
10288 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

All he has to do is bring his equipment, set up a play list and get out on the dance floor with the rest of us as he would of as a guest…

Apparently you are not aware of what a DJ actually does. He needs to control the music and entertain your guests all night. It’s not as simple as just setting up his equiptment and pressing play one time. 

You invited this man as a guest and now you’re pissed because he doesn’t want to work for you. Hire a DJ that you can afford and let him enjoy his night.

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