(Closed) Just looking for advice on WP

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: What to do with MOH title
    Ask BM to be MOH : (4 votes)
    80 %
    Have BM stand next to me but leave her a BM : (1 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 3
    1488 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Awww, so sorry you are having Bridesmaid or Best Man issues. I’ve had some as well so I know what it’s like. I had to let one friendship go because she was toxic and I found out all these awful things that she was saying about Fiance and I behind our backs. I asked someone else to step in as a replacement and she was THRILLED! I don’t think your other BM’s feel like replacements. If they had an issue with it, they wouldn’t have accepted at all.

    As far as your Maid/Matron of Honor goes, resolve that with her first. Talk face to face and (if it is worth saving) try to save that friendship. If it falls through, I would ask your MOST TRUSTED Bridesmaid or Best Man to step up as Maid/Matron of Honor in her place. Try to pick someone who will be there for you and support you. You don’t want any added drama.

    Hope this helps and good luck! 🙂

    Post # 6
    142 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Why not ask the two added bridesmaids and the others to go shopping for a headband or shoes or something to go with the dresses if your worried they don’t feel involved. if not ask them to go to a wedding fair with you just something weddingy (I know thats not even a word)

    As for Maid/Matron of Honor maybe you should ask someone If your sister hasn’t really been involved anyway you need someone to arrange your shower/ Bach party and someone to moan at when your stressed lol

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