(Closed) Just lost my mind

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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608 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Amazing how quickly weddings can get overwhelming.  Sorry you are having a bad day. 

Post # 4
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586 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Deep breaths…in…out…there ya go…

I feel ya girl. I haven’t even gotten into planning and it is already the most stressful thing in the world, especially when you feel like no one gives a flying f*ck but you. I totally thought getting stressed and hysterical over a wedding was something only the crazy, drama queen brides did. Oh no, it’s for us too.

I’m sorry I don’t have any good advice, but you’re not alone, and vent away.

P.s. Tell your fiance “so is your face.”

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

Sorry you’re having a bad day!  I second @katiedee.  Or you can always use the old “takes one to know one” hehe ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
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3222 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’m right there with you darling ๐Ÿ™

I had to have two vents to my Fiance today, as well as a few fights. 

I just went down to my parent’s house (where the wedding is) last week for a few days to help out (because they asked me to), and they literally made 3 hours’ time for me while I was there. It’s a 10 hour drive each way. I felt like I was the only one who cares about my wedding as well. 

But you know what? It’ll be great in the end, and you’ll be SO happy you did the work!

Post # 7
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963 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

It gets better.  You will get things done.  Like the other girls said, relax, breathe.

As for your fiance, tell him he’s ugly.

Post # 8
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2271 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I hear you! I had absolutely no help with the wedding planning or preparations either. You couldn’t pay me to go through that again. Thank goodness for weddingbee! Despite wedding planning being a major PITA, I was truly blissful on our wedding day and I had the satisfaction of knowing that the wonderful day was the result of all my hard work and effort. And yeah, it was worth it in the end.

Walk away for a while. Think or do something that is not wedding oriented.

Post # 10
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1314 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

@katiedee: lol I second that, “so is your face”

Big Hugs to you!! I wish I had wisdom, but I don’t. It’s stressful being a budget/DIY/alone bride. Sometimes when I get really stressed, I stop doing everything and turn on the TV or get a massage or run, etc… That always helps.

Post # 12
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156 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@Heatherloveskenny: How mean of your fiance. I’ve seen your pictures and your SO pretty. I’d have smacked him in the face lol. Your gorgeous and don’t ever let anyone tell you differently. I don’t care who they are. Keep your chin up and take a break of things wedding related for a little white. It helps trust me. I am also in your situation, planning the whole thing practically by myself and it gets very overwhelming but when that happens I just shut the laptop down and turn on a movie for a couple hours. It helps and by the times it’s over I’m back on the laptop brainstorming for ideas. ๐Ÿ™‚

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