- 8 years ago
- Wedding: May 2010
We got engaged last summer, my sister got engaged a week later. We sent out our website, she sent hers out a day later. We set our wedding date for May, she moved hers up to February (was supposed to get married in October). Then she planned the shower for my 30th birthday, family stopped that. Am I wrong for being upset that I feel like she is constantly stepping on my toes. I am almost 5 years older and she is the baby. It just feels like she is always right there stealing the thunder. Now it is weird because our friends and family are getting tired of all of the wedding festivities and are deciding which wedding to attend, etc. My mom is always pressuring me to help her because she thinks my sister is clueless and needs help. To make matters worse I feel like I need to keep my plans secret because she copies a lot of my ideas. Example: I was using manzanita branches for my centerpieces, she decided she need manzanita branches at her wedding. I piked a flower girl dress she picked the same one in a different color. I find it all incredibly frustrating. Suggestions?