Just need a vent

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

I wouldn’t hesitate to “push him” on the timeline. It’s not just his decision, it’s yours too and it’s important to be on the same page so that you’re not sitting there a year from now wondering what’s going on.

Post # 17
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Helper bee

annasaf83 :  did you guys buy a house together? 

marriage technically cost 50-70 dollar and a trip to the court house. Esp ( if you guys bought a house) what is it that he is saving up for? You guys live together already. Is it the wedding??? Weddings can be cheap. 

Dose he mean saving for kids? that would make more sense to me. You can tell him you don’t have to have kids right after wedding.. you can wait for that to happen 

My husband and I are married for a year already but we are going to wait for one more year to have kid saving reasons. We just bought a house and I was painting the nursery lol becuase I didn’t want to do it later, I thought soon enough why not just paint it now. But I understand you, having baby fever now too lol

Post # 18
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Newbee

The barely know each other comment was rather odd

Post # 19
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Newbee

Never EVER EVER EVER give into the guy when he says he wants kids asap but doesn’t want to put in the leg work of marrying you. Men who say they don’t believe in marriage 9 times out of 10 mean – “I want to sow my seed all over the fields”. Its classic confidence and deep rooted issues. Thats my honest opinion – I’ve heard millions of horror stories. Never settle.

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