(Closed) Just need to drop a vent …

posted 7 years ago in Career
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

πŸ™ πŸ™ πŸ™ oh my gosh, that is beyond horrible. i can’t believe any mother would do that to her helpless baby. how badly does this ruin their life and future health?

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

That is such a sad story…but at least the child will have a chance at having a healthy life because she will be out of the drug environment and hopefully be adopted by a wonderful family.  You are doing wonderful work and helping save lives…when you are heartbroken or upset about these types of things, don’t forget that!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

That is a sad story, I can’t imagine how hard that situation must be to witness. 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Oh dear my heart is broken just listening to this. Thank goodness that we have people like you to take care of these poor little souls. I too feel so incrediably angry that a person could feel so little about the life of a child. I just can never understand it. Maybe it’s because I have never been in the position of a mother like this, but I still can’t understand how you could feel not one shred of love for your own child.

It’s so sad that there are so many healthy, strong women out there that can’t concieve and women like this can just throw their babies away. Thankfully that child will have a better chance at life without that women in her life. Thank you for being that small child’s strength when she needs it most.

My heart goes out to you and all that you do.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

That is just sad all around for everyone involved. Poor little babies! πŸ™

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Wow.  Well all I can really say is thank god for nurses like you! I can only imagine how taxing it is for you but we need more like you.  And yes, it is a shame that this woman continues to do this, she shouldn’t be allowed to have children.  My prayers go to the baby who will hopefully pull through and find a loving and caring home. 

Post # 9
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

That mom should be sterilized. How sad πŸ™ it just breaks my heart

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

As a mother of an Angel Baby (lost at 34 weeks and 2 days), I want to first say how much my nurse helped me. She left us alone, but checked on up periodically and lovingly. Then, when we delivered, she remembered that we didn’t want to see Moose’s body. Even though the doctor didn’t really care about what we wanted, she took the time to make sure something was set up. She held my hand and encouraged me and treated me like a daughter. I really hope, if I have a baby, that she’s my nurse because I love her even though I can’t remember her name. She even offered to sit with me while my hubby went to get me sushi (because I coudn’t have it for 9 months). Anyway, what you do is so important and I’m sure you don’t get told enough how much you help people.

As for drug addicted mothers, well, I’ll just say that if I ever see a pregnant woman smoking a cigarette, I’m going to tell her how I did EVERYTHING right and lost my baby for no reason. Yes, I will completely harass her because she’s an idiot and I say this as a child of a woman who smoked with all three of her kids. Anyway, drug addicted mothers, well, I don’t think that my feelings are internet safe.

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

This breaks my heart, but I am happy there are nurses as compassionate as you! It is horrible to see a baby go through withdrawal. My friend adopted a baby girl born to a heroin addict. It was horrible for the family to see the tiny little baby suffering. Once the baby gets through this, I pray she finds a happy loving family like she truly deserves!

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

this is so awful πŸ™

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

How terrible.  Thank God for people like you with the patience and heart to help take care of them when their parent’s are worthless.

Post # 15
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Helper bee

My heart really goes out to you. I am finishing up my pre-reqs now for nursing school, and I have been interested in NICU for a really long time. I only hope when I get to that point I can be as strong as you.

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