(Closed) just need to vent

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Ugh he sounds like a jerk with a complex!

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

1. a PhD is a huge deal and he’s being a dick for not celebrating proeprly with his SO.

2. woah, someone has commitment and control issues, a weird combination

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Sooooooo…………..why is Maid/Matron of Honor with this guy?  Sounds like she could do 110x better!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

What a jerk……

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Wow he sounds like quite a catch lol! If she were my friend I would get her to start working on her self esteem issues because she must have them if she’s allowing him to tell her what she can and can’t do. Guys like that make horrible husbands, not that he’s committing. Is it that she thinks she can’t do better. Sometimes girls need to hear that not all guys are like that from another guy, maybe your fi could help with that.

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

Given that he’s clearly being a jerk, I don’t think it’s appropriate to not invite your MoH’s SO just because you don’t like him or approve of his relationship.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee

Whatever you do, please take her out to celebrate the Ph.D., even if you have to kidnap her to do so! I am working on my dissertation right now, and, holy cow! She needs some celebration!

Post # 14
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Clearly a PhD has still not provided the education that this woman needs.

Any woman of that intelligence who tolerates such controlling behavior, clearly has other issues of her own.

Post # 16
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Honey bee

@julies1949:  This. A woman who is smart enough to finish her Ph.D. should be smart enough not to be with a guy who thinks he can has some right to control her.

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