(Closed) Just need to vent

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2126 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@anon_888:  atta girl! I think we all have at least one friend like this. I sure do!! I actually chose not to ask her to be in the bridal party…but I kinda got lucky because she’ s traveling around the time of hte wedding and wasn’t sure she could even make it to the wedding so I told her I couldn’t wait til the last minute to adjust my bridal party so I asked if she wouldn’t mind being a spectator…even though she is one of my oldest friends. She didn’t mind at all…but I can tell she’s kind said I didn’t make more of an effort to convince her to be there for me…but I honestly don’t think I can deal with her on my wedding day…I am even wondering if I should even give her her inviation sometimes. 

Geez..I wonder if we are talking about the same person…your friend sounds SOOO much like mine. My friend was engaged two years ago and she mentioned SEVERAL times now sad it was that I wasn’t engaged yet and how long am I going to wait for my Boyfriend or Best Friend to pop the question…her smug additude about her own relationship nearly costed her our frindship cuz I really felt like she was going out of her way to make me feel like crap for not being engaged. Well, long story short her engagement fell apart before the date could even be set…and now I’m getting married in 3 months and all she can say NOW is how pointless marriage is. LOL!!!

A few weeks ago my car got stolen, I was devestated, as I’d had it for 10 years and it had been paid off for 5 and running great. Finally, I was forced to purchase a new car and when she found out she feigned excitement and asked me to pick her up in it and then complained about everything it lacked. sunivaBICH.

So, Seriously, I feel you. Sometimes I think my friend has a bit of a personality issue….like seriously. She does have wonderful qualities but sometimes I think she’s pretty messed up in the head. I can serioulsy imagine her looking at me on my wedding day, with distain towards somethign I’m wearing…or some choice I’ve made. ugggk.

Let no one ruin your specIAL DAY!

Post # 4
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1810 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Wow, she sounds like a bowl of fun. But at least you are venting and not letting it build up until it “bursts” so to speak.

And I’m not sure what it is with weddings and anything wedding-related, but people tend to lack filters moreso with those subjects. I just dont get it…

Post # 5
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2401 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

With my principles (that sound similar to yours), I dont know if I could have a friendship with this girl. ESPECIALLY with the blatant race and classism. It just wouldn’t fly. I am way too passionate about social justice causes and am very liberal in my thinking. I have an inability to be friends who those who I consider to be the opposite. 

Post # 7
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

i had to google what a pescetarian was!

Post # 10
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2126 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Yeah..cry for attention..low self-esteem who knows why some friends act this way….it’s harder to rid yourself of them when they have been around so long though. 

Just keep that positive attidude up.

I had never heard of a pesceterian before either…but I ventured to guess you are a vegeterian but you eat fish/shellfish….spanish (and I suspect latin) word for fish is part of that…so that’s interesting. 

Most of my friends love sushi..but we have a select few who hate it, but they are always good sports and they come with us and they find other things to eat…ur friend sure was being a brat about that. 

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