(Closed) Just need to vent!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I don’t tend to think so, but I can think of some girls I’d have a hard time getting along with. However, I don’t really get why grown women can’t just suck it up for a friend or family member. It ALWAYS confounds me when people have bridesmaid drama – I’m very sorry you have to deal with it. :/

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m sending lots of virtual love your way! I’m so sorry you’re having this much drama with your BMs. It’s kind of unbelievable how much craziness weddings tend to bring out. I hope that, whatever way the situation with your BMs gets worked out, you enjoy your wedding day to the fullest!

And By The Way, drama like this is why I opted to have just a Maid/Matron of Honor and Bridesmaid or Best Man. It’s seriously saved me so much stress, and now all my other friends can sit back and just enjoy the day–in whatever they want to wear!

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

NO it is not too much to ask!

Post # 7
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5110 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

I really dont think thats so much to ask.. So Im sorry that there is so much drama and stress going on right now.. Its prolly the last thing that you want to deal with. I would just try and talk to her.. explain listen I know you and these girls dont get along so well.. but I chose you all bc you mean something to me.. even if you dont mean something to eachother. I just want my girls by my side on my big day.. but if you dont want to please back out now so iknow. Be straight to the point yet classy. Im so sorry your going through this. 

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

I really dont think thats so much to ask.. So Im sorry that there is so much drama and stress going on right now.. Its prolly the last thing that you want to deal with. I would just try and talk to her.. explain listen I know you and these girls dont get along so well.. but I chose you all bc you mean something to me.. even if you dont mean something to eachother. I just want my girls by my side on my big day.. but if you dont want to please back out now so iknow. Be straight to the point yet classy. Im so sorry your going through this. 

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’d try and talk – just be nice about it. Likely she will call you a bridezilla though.. I’ve gotten that a lot.

I asked my Future Sister-In-Law to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man the other day (since our wedding is now going to be larger than we thought) and she told me she wanted to look at the dress before she decides. Seriously? Then she proceeded to show me other dresses at David’s she preferred.

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