(Closed) just need to vent a little

posted 6 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

The sentence where you said “I really don’t think he gets it” is probably exactly the problem. Sometimes men just don’t understand the importance of all the details. Even the big ones.

Post # 4
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2616 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

i understand…i tell fiance to talk to his groomsmen bout their measurements and when they are flying in…. fiance and one gm came up with a story to tell me…. gm said he was flying in thenight before wedding. will be picking up his suit at 430 if his flight was not delayed and will be at church at 5pm for rehearsal… fiance was waiting for me to blow up and freak out bout his friends message to me.. i didnt because i am DONE with dealin with his buddies… they are ALLL procastinators and keep telling me not to bug them til june. so june it will be when crazy asian bride zilla comes out. lol..

Post # 6
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2616 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

i have met 4 of the five grooms men. fiance warned me that the fifth one has a jokester personality so i dont think we will jive well.lol. the ones i have met are really laid back but im REALLY OCD anal in some aspect of life and i think thats why im having major issues with the GUYS in the party…

Post # 7
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411 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@ames12708:  Maybe try making him a list. I had to make a big to-do list for myself anyway, with check boxes next to each activity.  So I made one for him too, and brought them both home to hang on the fridge. I think when he saw that my list was like 50 things and his was 7 (SEVEN THINGS!!! WTF! haha I wish I was the groom), but I was still checking my things off faster than he was, he got his act together. Next thing I knew he was at Men’s Wearhouse getting the style numbers for everything his groomsmen would have to wear and sending them all the information. I think he liked getting to check off his little boxes.

Now lo and behold his list is nearly complete and I can’t think of a thing to b*tch at him for 😉

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