(Closed) Just need to vent about sisters (Kinda Long)

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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4416 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Sounds like you made the right choice — truly, the job of bridesmaids more than ANYTHING else is to support you and make sure you feel amazing through your entire engagement and wedding. If these sisters don’t have it in them, you absolutely don’t want to deal with it. Being a bridesmaid is a lot of work, and so if you don’t deeply and fully love the bride, it’s just a chore. Whereas if you love the bride, it’s an honor and a pleasure. Stick to BMs who will really feel it is an honor and you’ll have a much better time!

Post # 4
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2009 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

You did the right thing.

I know ts considered rude to ask anyone to step down, but in ths case I think it was warranted.

You want to surround yourself with people who support you, make you feel good and encourage you.  Your wedding day shouldn’t be a full of stress and spite.

Now you can relax and enjoy the rest of your planning and your wedding day!

Post # 5
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278 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I know a lot of people will disagree with me, and try to convince you that family is family and it’s your duty to try and salvage things yadda yadda yadda. But family can be toxic – it only takes one person to make you miserable and you’ve got two.

I think you’ve done the right thing 🙂

Post # 7
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479 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

You did the right thing! And don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Your doing what’s best for your wedding and yourself. The day of your wedding you should be around ppl who love you no matter what’s going on or has happened. #SmartMove

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