- 9 years ago
- Wedding: June 2011
So, do you get lap dances too? Or do you just watch him getting them? How do you interact with the strippers.
wow. perfect timing on his part to let you know! yeah right! I would totally be upset for how he told you.
The positive thing was that he told you. I think he didn’t tell you during the party because he didnt want to cause a fight during his big last night out as a single man. I am sure his friends were giving him hell to go out to the strip club! I would worry if he ended up never telling you.
Don’t harp on this strip club thing though. Enjoy your wedding! Those strippers mean nothing to him! It is just a dude thing that they always think is something to go along with bachelor parties. I am sure it was more his friends than him.
ps. if you go with him to strip club..don’t just sit there and watch him get a lap dance! you should get one too so your not just focused on him and the other girl. That would get him off of watching the stippers and he will watch u! Personally my advice..if your not comfy with that, don’t go! 😛
orrr..let me add one more thing. If ya’ll do end up going together..he doesn’t need to get a lap dance. You can go without any of that. Sorry had to add that!
I’d be more upset that he said he was going to a friends and went to the strip club instead (and then confessed during sex… WHAAA?). I don’t care about strip clubs. I’ve been to them before with friends, I’m not intimidated by those women. I might not be able to twirl on a pole but I know my Fiance, he could go all he wanted and it would make him more uncomfortable than me. I think the real issue here is that he lied to you, and THAT is what needs to be discussed. (In my opinion)
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