(Closed) Just need to vent/Hurtful things fiance (?) said.

posted 5 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Your boyfriend told you straight out that all you offer him is a body and a smile? What’s left to analyze?

Time to move on to a man who values (or at least recognises) that you also offer a brain and personality, and let your ex try his luck with someone more his level emotionally – a blowup doll perhaps.

Post # 3
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Honey bee

You both sound immature and not ready for marriage. 

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

T12345:  In today’s example, you are both playing games, not communicating.

If you want him to know how you feel, try telling him, rather than playing tit for tat. He might follow your lead.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Wow dump him and move on. A guy who loves you wouldn’t say such hurtful things.

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

How old are you guys?  Seriously, you chat on facebook? You’re all upset that he didn’t talk to you for a morning?  Then continue to be pissy when he does try to talk to you?  Grow up and communicate.  Try a phone call and REALLY talk?

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - NH

Well, you can stay with someone who told you that you’re just a cute body and a smile…or you can find someone who really loves YOU for YOU…not just your body and smile.  

Post # 10
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

A morning without contact? Most grown ups go weeks and longer without attention from their spouse due to work, health, etc.  you should be able,to get through a morning without getting petty. 

as for his crappy comments, ugh. Why are you with him?

Post # 11
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Helper bee

You both sound incredibly immature. Long Distance Relationships require the ability to communicate efficently and maturely. Seems you can’t do that.

I agree his comments sound awful… but honestly you don’t sound like much of a peach. Blocking him on facebook? Are you in high school? 

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Not to sound ugly, but I don’t think I would want to marry someone who thought all I had to offer was a body and a cute smile 🙁 I’m sure you have so many wonderful qualities and you deserve someone who recognizes that.

Post # 15
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Helper bee

T12345:  Please do not get married. Obviously you don’t understand real communication. You honestly sound 15 years old. 

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