(Closed) Just over 3 months to go and I’m a total crazy nutcase!

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
190 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Oh, I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way. (((hugs))) I’m still 6 months out, so I can’t totally relate to what you’re going through, but I feel for you.

Would it help to just straight out say to your Fiance or your mom that you’re overwhelmed? They should step in and take some of the burden off of your shoulders.

I find it helpful when I’m getting overwhelmed to take a deep breath (or lots of them) and make a list of what’s bugging me. That helps me see what I actually have control over and what I just have to let go. Breaking things down helps them go from being this overwhelming cloud of “to-dos” and pressures and usually makes me realize that on an individual one by one basis, there’s nothing that can’t be taken care of.

It sounds too like you need to have a date night or something with your Fiance where you guys can reconnect on a personal, non-wedding basis. It can help you remember why you’re going through all your craziness. Because you love each other and want to make that lifetime comittment.

Ok so after all that, now I’ll stop telling you what to do and just wish you luck. I’m sure everything will work out. 🙂 

Post # 4
2475 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I have felt very much like you do lately.  Everytime someone asks me how wedding planning is going I say “I just can’t wait for this to be over with”.  Then I realize how kinda horrible that sounds, but it’s pretty much true.  It’s overhwhelming and frustrating to deal with all the little details and to make a ton of decisions.  It has definitely starting getting worse for me in the last month or so and now the wedding is less than three months away.

So, I totally feel your pain!  My suggestion is to take some days where you absolutely don’t do anything wedding related – don’t even think about it.  I’ve also become less particular about things, which makes it easier to make decisions.  Sometimes you have to remind yourself that not everything has to be the absolute perfect choice.  Just make a choice on something and stick with it, it will feel so much better to get things crossed off your to-do list!

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