Post # 1
I don’t know about anyone else, but I am sick and tired of having to defend all of my wedding decisions. I am also totally done tip-toeing around everyone else’s feelings.
- Future Mother-In-Law: I am sorry that you feel as if you are losing your “little boy,” but if you make one more backhanded comment towards me I will go off on your ass.
- Mother: please stop taking out my sister’s lack of wedding planning on me.
- Maid/Matron of Honor: can you maybe for one second stop being so self centered? I do not want a spa day, I hate people touching my feet, I don’t want people to feel like they have to spend a crap ton of money on me, and please dont put my old drunken escapade stories in your speach–its innapropriate. Oh and ps yes I am irratated that both showers you came to you left early (i.e. after 30 min)and didnt bother to let me know of your plans until the DAY OF
- other engaged sister: start planning your fing wedding! its in 4 months!
I seriously am done playing nice. grr
Post # 3
Big hugs. Two weeks ago I was where you’re at. I just stood my ground and said “screw it” to everyone and have felt much better for it. Standing up for yourself it the only thing you can do at the moment. Don’t talk weddings to anyone who might put you down and if anyone says anything about it just reply with something along the lines of it being your day and you’re really excited to see how XYZ turns out.
Post # 4
You are so close to your date and I have heard that the level of stress intensifies as the date gets closer. I do feel your pain though. I’ve had to bite my tongue on several occasions with my mom and my Future Mother-In-Law and Future Father-In-Law. I’m sure the list will grow the closer my date get here.
Hang in there. Take some deep breaths! Stay strong.
Post # 5
Aww, sorry. Hang in there. Almost done. 🙂
Post # 6
Girl get it all out! Seriously it’s hard to play nice when people just keep unloading on you and you’re so close to your day, so vent, relax, take deep breaths, and enjoy your moment.
Post # 7
Don’t worry, I think we all have “those” days where it just ALL gets to you. Hang in there – you’re SO close now!
Post # 8
People seriously think it’s ok to talk about your old drunken escapades? Uh oh. That’s just wrong.
Post # 9
You and I will be having a PARTY on March 21 when it’s all over!!!! I am so sick of FMIL’s antics I can barely wait til March 21. So sad that people drive you to dread what they’ll do at your wedding, right?
Post # 10
Your Maid/Matron of Honor sounds like a beezy! I’m sorry 🙁
It feels nice to vent and get it all out I know! Tell you Mother-In-Law to get over it! haha people are SO rude it’s insane!
Post # 11
Just keep telling yourself… it’s almost over!