Post # 1
This week has been so crazy and the days keep counting down to the wedding- only 75 days to go. I had a mental breakdown yesterday for no reason at all. I’m just busy with everything. The invitations are going out this week, we just got a church, I’m looking for a reception dress, trying to sell the one I bought ( anyone looking for a dress? ha ha), House hunting, School, and my internship, not to mention other things. Lately the fiance and I have been arguing about little things that really don’t matter, like whats for dinner, leaving bags in the car. etc. Things that we never really fight about. Is it just because we are getting closer to the wedding, there is so much left to plan and I am just psyching myself out. Or is this something I should be worried about? I love him so much and we have gone through so much together and I know he loves me too. I’m just so overwhelmed….
Advice bees, please.
Post # 3
Congrats, its getting close!! We are getting married in April as well (96 days to be exact!!). I dont think you have any thing to be worried about….I bet its just all the stress and anxiety about all the thinks you have left to do and non-wedding related things as well. We have kinda started having the same problem, bickering about little things that dont even matter! Good Luck and dont worry about the little things..enjoy the rest of your planning, dont get too over whelmed!!
Post # 4
That’s a lot going on at once! Don’t worry…whenever I get stressed, I fight with Fiance about the little things. Just take a deep breath. And you know how much you love him, so don’t worry. Try to schedule some down time (if possible) for the two of you and just reconnect. Good luck hun, and again, just remember…deep breaths 🙂
Post # 5
@NauticalBride2011: and @Miss.Lace: Thank you both. It’s nice to know that A. I’m not going crazy and B. that what I am feeling is normal. I’m one of the first of my friends to get married, so this website has been wonderful to have other brides to bounce ideas off from and when I start to get stress there are wonderful brides like you guys to help keep my head screwed on the right way!
Post # 6
I have those moments. especially the stress causing my fiance and I to fight more than usual or over things that reallly dont matter. But its all the stress, you are going to get everything done I find it best to make lists for the weeks and days. especially if I have a lot going on. Knowing what you have to do and having it laid out in front of me for some reason always makes me feel better.
Congrats on getting closer!
Post # 7
I really think it’s just the stress causing you to bicker more. I definitely lose patience easily and become more emotional when I’m stressed out, not sleeping enough, etc.
Fiance and I bicker about stupid stuff regularly since moving in together and I definitely don’t think it’s a sign of us not being right for each other. It’s just part of sharing your life and your space with someone. And now with wedding planning, it gives us even more to argue about. But at the end of the day, we still love each other and want to spend our lives together.
It will all be over soon! Just try to relax as best you can.