(Closed) Just received 4 response cards from people I didn't invite. WTF!

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
11233 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Oh no 🙁 

What’d your mom have to say for herself?

Post # 4
9139 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

I would be wondering who didn’t get their invitations!?!

Also, I would make her call them in front me so she can personally apologize and uninvite each one if there isn’t room for them.  I think that is one of the few instances where I might go fuill on homicidal maniac, not just brideszilla, on someone.

Post # 5
7311 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

Oh my goodness. Was this intentional subterfuge? A mix-up? Who was supposed to receive those 4 invitations?

Post # 6
2743 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Disney

@beachbride1216:  Me too



OP this is really uncool of your mother. This is your wedding not hers. I’d be livid!

Post # 7
1880 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@beachbride1216:  +1

I would make mom fix this… not cool to invite people not on the friggin list.

Post # 8
2691 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Wow. Just. Wow.


Post # 9
1497 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Oh no! Does this mean some people on the guest list didn’t get an invite?

Post # 10
5242 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

I would be livid if my mother did this!!!! Thats why I made sure to send all the invites out myself

Post # 11
3194 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@beachbride1216:  +1. I might kill somebody. 

I second all the q’s about who she chose to nix from your list. And also second that you should make her call, apologize and uninvite them in front of you. Ain’t nobody got time fo’ dat!

Post # 12
1505 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

WHAT?!  OMG, I would be a wreck if this happened to me 🙁  Sending you good vibes!!!

Post # 13
1357 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Wow. I’m with @beachbride1216. It’s tacky to uninvite, but if you can’t make room, I would make her call those people up and explain her mistake herself. Did some of them at least RSVP “no”?


And…oh God…how many more uninvited replies might come?!

Post # 14
9954 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Ohhhh MY Gosh !!

Lol, I’d be tempted to tell Dear Old Mom, that it will sad to not have her at the Wedding… as she has so “generously” given away her seat to someone else

😉 *wink*

What a frickin disaster !!

Lol, and you only have 4 RSVPs in hand so far… cannot imagine WHAT she did with your Original List or if there are more Surprises still to come in the mail.

I’d be livid… I’d be homicidal for sure.

And I’d be having her FIX IT… or I’d be telling her you’ve decided to Elope and SHE can tell everyone why … family discourse over the Wedding Planning.

*Excuse me… I gotta go lie down now… my blood pressure is thru the roof, and I’m not even you*


Post # 16
2902 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

So far you have recieved four? I hope there aren’t more to come! Eek!

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