(Closed) Just SHOOT me now!

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1747 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Haha. Take a breath girl. Not to trivialize your strife and wax poetic here, but  in the scheme of things, you have your life and your health. You have a mom trying to help you in the States, and things are going to fall into place.

Let the cards fall as they may.

Post # 5
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2442 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Ask Mom to put the wedding planning on hold alltogether.  Is she REALLY irritated or is that just her way?  Take care of you and your guy and plan the wedding the way you want to at your pace.  You referred to him as your husband.  Are you already married?  If not, you could marry in Japan now and have the wedding you want later.  

Post # 7
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2442 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@adw2c:

Well, since you’re already married, it certainly won’t hurt to wait longer than you originally planned.  With all that is going on in Japan right now, why don’t you have your beautiful ceremony at your one year anniversary?  That will give you lots of time to plan what you want the way you want it.  And… if it doesn’t happen then, it will happen whenever it does.  Japan is in crisis right now for goodness sakes!  Everyone should understand survival gets top priority over a wedding!

Post # 8
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5883 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Moms…gota love ’em! Is she planning your wedding or her wedding that you are the bride in? Sometimes I think they want to do things that they think are the best for us, but forget that we aren’t 12 and we have opinions that differ from them. I def would tell her that if they are gone before we can confirm with everyone, then so be it. There will be another beautiful place for you to have your wedding. Then take a deep breath…

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