- 9 years ago
What is worse, the lies we tell ourselves or the lies we choose to believe ?
It’s been a couple weeks since I walked out on a 3.5 yr relationship, maybe I shouldn’t be on the boards at all since I’m not waiting, let alone dating yet lol but some how reading the post, following the stories has been helping me to see myself my more clearly and better yet to set some new ground rules when Mr. Next comes along 🙂
I’m still in the stages of thinking back as to why I choose to believe the lies that were right in front of me. How I got so blind sided and wondering when I stopped listening to my head and let my heart lead me. I knew better than to let that happen !
On the flip side, no time for tears since leaving 🙂 as I’ve been way too busy shopping for all new clothes, some hot new shoes, and a bunch of smashing new earring to show off with my new do !! Chopped all my hair off, new color, hi lights and got a fresh new look going on !!!!!!!
Between the new look and leaving, I somehow feel empowered that I took a hold of “my” life before it was too late a second time. And I just want to thank those ladies again who were kind enough to spell out the truth for me when I joined the board in desperation to help me see the light of the truth !!!
Cheers ! 🙂