(Closed) Just throw me a bone!! Slight vent…help me!

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

FI did the same stuff to me. I was glad that when he did pop the question it was a total surprise.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

FI did the same to me.  He wanted to decide everything himself and i was not allowed to ask.  We looked at rings originall in November, then again in February. And from that point forward i could not mention it. 4 months later he proposed

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@sa.to.sb.soon:  It lasted about a year. At one point we had saved up the money together for an ering and then one day I checked that savings account and the money was gone. You know what he bought???? A FREAKIN MOTORCYCLE!! I lost it, almost left, the whole nine. 3 weeks later he proposed. Sneaky boy

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think you’ll feel better if you stop thinking about it and know you’re on the right track, especially because you’ve looked at rings and he’s saving.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Just to try and get you to look at it a different way: what is there to talk about if you aren’t engaged? I can understand if you have The Talk and a year later no proposal, but if he says he is going to do it, it’s been a few months then what would you need/want to discuss?

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I really think I would die (and/or explode) if I had to go months and months without talking about it at all – and we haven’t even looked at rings yet!  You’re a stronger person than I!  Hang in there!  *hugs*

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