(Closed) Just Venting

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
257 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@Taylor14:  It’s understandable that your feelings were hurt but look at the bright side, being a Maid/Matron of Honor also comeo with many responsibilities! Also, there was probably some Family pressure involved in your friend’s decision….

Post # 4
839 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@Taylor14:  I know that I’m three months late to the party but I’m really sorry that this is happening to you. I was really hurt when a close friend of mine didn’t ask me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding. This is one of those situations where it’s really wasy for other people to tell you to get over yourself, but I think you have a right to be hurt. As long as you keep it to yourself and gracefully accept your Bridesmaid or Best Man position that is. I think it was a little onconsiderate of your friend to tell you that she considered you as Maid/Matron of Honor but passed you up (who wants to hear that?) but maybe she was trying to tell you that she considers you important enough to her to be a candidate? It does sound like there was a familial obligation here like a PP said. She probably felt that it would be rude to have one sister and not the other. 

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