(Closed) Just want to be married already!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Do you just want to be married already?
    yes-is it my wedding day yet? : (48 votes)
    75 %
    no-I love all the planning and pre-wedding activities : (6 votes)
    9 %
    other-depends on the day you ask me. : (10 votes)
    16 %
  • Post # 3
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    9483 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Breathe, dear!  It will be okay.  =)

    I certainly understand how you feel.  I almost wanted to elope this weekend in fact.  I had to work though so it would be a crappy way to go about it.  

    I think a number of us have felt this way more than we could count on each other’s fingers. Wedding planning and family can take a major toll on us.

    Perhaps you could take a nice day or two and relax.  Think things through.  Jot down ideas.  Do you have a wedding planner?  Those are pretty handy.  =)

    Post # 4
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    1474 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I’m so sick of the planning. I just want it to be the day-of, so it’s too late to worry about anything, and I can just enjoy it. 🙂

    Post # 6
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    121 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I wish we were married yesterday!

    Post # 8
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    1747 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    If you had asked me on the day I got engaged if I would/could ever feel this way, I would have told you no way no how. But all the family drama and politics, the money concerns and all the elements I don’t want to address make me want to fast forward sometimes.

    Post # 9
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    9483 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    @pandaboo: I meant to say wedding planner book – just clarifying in case you thought I mean a person.  Haha.  I think that would stress me out more if I had a stranger involved.  I like to be in control and hands on.  =)

    Thank you.  It’ll be here before you know it.  Some bees actually miss the wedding planning process afterwards.  You’ll sit back one day and just laugh it off.

    Fiance was against eloping as well, but our problems got worse and worse.  I think he just wants to see me happy and to be married to me in th end.  That’s all that matters to us.

    Post # 10
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    9483 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    @LuckyJuls: FI and I had discussion when we were first engaged that we wanted to be different from others he knew that got married.  Now it looks like we’re following in their footsteps, but still being romantic about it (his friends pretty much just decided that day and went).

    Post # 11
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    2699 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I just want it to be a few months closer so I can start planning all the little things!!

    Post # 13
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    429 posts
    Helper bee

    same here !!!!!! Yell grrrrrrrrrr

    Post # 14
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    868 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    Originally when we were talking about dates, Fiance said “as soon as possisble – October sometime” and I said, well maybe we should do a spring wedding, October seems really soon (this was September).

    Three months just about killed me.  I am getting married in 6 days and it is still not soon enough!  Looks like Fiance wins the “I know you better than you know yourself sometimes” award on this one.  We should have done October!  Also, wishing we had eloped!

    Post # 15
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    294 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    Oh I have my days of dreading more descions, and somedays where I just say this is so much fun I will miss it when it is over. I have 47 days left and still have things to keep me busy. I know I will miss it when it is over but I cant wait to be his wife so we can finally start our lives together. So some days I am hurry up and some days I am wait, no, slow down!!

    Post # 16
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    1697 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    At times i am glad I hve more time to plan, others I can’t wait to resume my regular life schedule.

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