(Closed) Just want to punch this girl in the face!

posted 6 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@sheilamelo:    Wow.  I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this, I know TTC is hard enough without someone rubbing it in your face.  She sounds like an insensitive jerk.  ((HUGS))  That really sucks, I guess all you can do is walk away and avoid her as much as possible.

If you care enough to confront her you may wish to bring up the fact of her insensitivity by letting her know how her thoughtless comments affect you.  Then again, it may not be worth your time.  Ugh, some people!!

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I don’t honestly see how her making those comments is directed at you?

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

She probably isn’t doing it on purpose. Fiance and I were TTC for a year and a half and every little comment pissed me off. I had to learn that its just my emotions messing with me.

Post # 6
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5657 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

@eeniebeans:  This. I think you may be being oversensitive. I doubt she’s saying these things just to get at you.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Maybe she’s just happy to be pregnant and enjoys talking about it?

There’s a good chance this isn’t about you and your struggles and is only about her happiness at the two lives she carries inside her.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

I doubt she is saying those things to get you upset. Maybe she feels like you might be judging her for what she is eating if you are really open about a special diet for TTC.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I don’t think she’s doing anything “to you”

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Aw, I really don’t think she means to do this on purpose. I don’t think she understands just how sensitive you are to these comments. I really wouldn’t take it to heart. I’m really sorry you’re going through this, I know how hard something like this can be. I’m not trying to become a mother just yet but I did have a miscarriage about a year ago and my friend got pregnant almost right after and some of her comments were hurtful but I knew she had no idea it hurt me. It’ll be okay (hugs).

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