Post # 1
Just want to take a moment to apologize of I have come off as abrasive to some or if I have picked on anyone. I am sorry.
I think sometimes when we have things we are insecure about, struggling with etc we project those things onto others which of course, is not fair. I had a pretty rough, abusive childhood (no excuses just trying to explain) so when I read of a situation in which I feel like kids are suffering (even they are not) I automatically go into psycho bully mode. And I project all those feelings I have held inside onto others and that is not appropriate and it’s definitely me being a bully and I apologize. And if any other bees feel I have been rude or “picked on” them I am really sorry about that to…again, that was me being a bully. I apologize.
That being said, I will need all of your bank account info to pay for my therapy. As well as all your social security numbers.
I love this site and appreciate you all.
Happy Tuesday xoxox.
Post # 3
- Wedding: November 2019 - City, State
sweetiemermaid : Super sweet post. 🙂 I definitely appreciate your perspective a lot of times because it’s often different from my own, but I also totally get that sometimes these discussions dredge up our own personal crap. It’s absolutely happened to me a few times as well. I suppose that’s partially what makes this site so fun and interesting, lol.
Post # 5
- Wedding: November 2019 - Canada
It takes a lot to admit when you’re wrong, so good for you. You’re a sweet lady 🙂 I hope you have a wonderful day
Post # 6
- Wedding: February 2018 - UK
I think we all have things we feel particularly strongly about, and sometimes we go off on a little rant before we realise it and without meaning to. I know I’ve done it before.
I reacted a little harshly to the same thread as the one you’re referring to for similar reasons – I’ve been a child introduced to endless new girlfriends and it had an effect. I probably could have phrased things more nicely though, we all could at times.
For what it’s worth coming from an internet stranger, I think you generally come across as a caring good-natured person.
Post # 7
I so totally get it, not for the reasons you have stated but lets just say that having cancer a second time makes me do a lot of eye rolling at people and some of their choices. Like Im dealing with my mortality, which puts a lot of life into perspective.
I get so angry that people are doing things not thinking about the consequences of their actions because life is damned short and it could end at any moment. I have been lucky that I dont have many regrets and while I have made a few mistakes on the road we call life, I like to think that I have made well thought out choices. So sometimes when I read some of these threads the first thought in my head is Really? You cant be that stupid.
I know that is totally horrible, but I suppose at this stage in my life, where my life span is being cut short, I have a little more perspective about long term consequences.
Post # 9
Thank you! And many good vibes and hugs to you!
Post # 10
Although we haven’t had issues, it’s pretty cool you wrote this. sweetiemermaid :
Post # 11
I think one thing we all need to do better at on this site is remembering that every poster here is a real person whose thoughts and opinions are influenced by a lot of factors that we aren’t privy to. So we need to take a step back and stop assuming that someone who is coming off a certain way is actually like that. Instead of getting angry because the things they’re saying or how they’re saying it sounds awful coming from our own perspective, try to ask questions about where their opinion is coming from.
Post # 13
Thank you all for your responses💕💖💕
Post # 14
You’re a crazy mess and I love you.
Post # 15
I think it’s understandable honestly and you come off as being a very sweet person for posting something like this. It’s definitely big of you. Happy Tuesday sweetiemermaid :