(Closed) Just went crazy….

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
193 posts
Blushing bee


Don’t be ashamed. I think we all ‘snap’ at some point. I snapped about a month ago, and his timeframe (when HE said that he’d have money for a ring) was January.

Men need a shock of reality sometimes. At first you might feel bad, but trust me, you’ll sleep much better knowing that your b/f knows how you really feel. I kept my feelings bottled up for so long until I finally snapped and sobbed to him at 4am one night. Best thing I ever did. I felt horrible at first, but it felt so good to get it off my chest. AND, it showed him that I was serious. I MEANT BUSINESS. I told my b/f that I was considering moving out (which I was… I picked up apartment rental magz and everything) because he assured me that when we moved in together things would ‘pick up’ with regards to our relationship… They didn’t. And now that I expressed how I felt, we have a timeline.

Don’t feel bad. If you feel the need to, you can apologise. But make sure you tell him that you meant what you said.


Post # 4
442 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

What was his response? Don’t feel bad

Post # 5
1602 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Aww definately don’t feel bad. Sometimes guy just need that little push, because otherwise they don’t realize how important it is to us. Maybe this will do the trick?

Post # 7
1278 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Oh we all have these moments! As long as it isn’t every day, I am sure your boy will take it in the right way! When they are dragging their feet and frustrating us, they kind of need to know – otherwise the feelings will just get worse.

It sounds like he has got a plan though, so hopefully he steps it up soon!

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