(Closed) Just your average overthinker- Overthinking!

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
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Nishtha :  Everyone calms down a bit once they get more comfortable in a relationship. If he’s communicating with you everyday and introducing you to friends and family, I’d say that’s a pretty big deal.

The bigger question is, are you happy and secure in this relationship? From your previous post, and now this one, it’s clear that there was a lot of uncertainty. It sounds like maybe you’re both acclimating to the new reality of him not going to Poland – sometimes when something stressful is supposed to happen and doesn’t, people can be like, “now what?” because they (and their body) were expecting something stressful or upsetting that didn’t occur. There are actually biological stress reactions that were occurring and now there’s nothing going on, and that can create a lot of feelings. 

If you really like this guy and your relationship, give it some time. It’s not totally clear how long you’ve been together, but it seems early on!

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