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posted 10 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Hehe you’re not the only one.

I tease SO about it allllll the time ๐Ÿ˜€

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

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@miss_blondie86: me toooo arhhggggggggg :S

Post # 5
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Worker bee

Yesterday he told me, “let’s put a hold on the wedding talk” I guess trying to get a guestlist together when I don’t even have a ring was too much for him…lol

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Me too! But SO is worse. It just cannot be avoided!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I am already married and I keep making comments about how he didn’t “officially” propose!  LOL 

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

guilty! well, not of engagement talk – but wedding talk. I talk a lot about what I want for our wedding, but I’m lucky that I have an SO who is on board and doesn’t mind the talk, he’s just not ready (financially or whatever) to officially say “let’s start planning. (frankly, neither am I…. credit card debt is a bitch). 

I think – if you can’t be open about talking about your future, to include your engagement, then perhaps you need to find out how he feels. but – I was lucky, my SO knew from day one I was the one, (even though I did not), so wedding talk has never been an issue with us. 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I’ve had to make a conscious effort to STOP mentioning things about proposing/weddings/the ring. Of course, this will only last until after he proposes. I’ve just seen so many people say that constantly talking about it only delayed the proposal longer, and I’d be so mad at myself if I caused that. So I’m trying to keep my mouth shut for the time being!

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

lol..My SO is the one making comments! He jokes about my ring being hidden somewhere in the apartment (which it is)! He’s so mean!!! He doesnt mind the wedding talk. I have already ordered paper swatches from Cards and Pockets since I plan on making my own paper products! And he’s the one that wants the huge wedding, not me!

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Me too!

Post # 12
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Yup! I’m guilty too. That’s my goal until April- no more engagement talk. Every time I brought it up and didn’t get the response I hoped for I was hurt and then it caused a tension between us. Last weekend my SO told me “you’re the woman I want to marry and have children with. It’s not “if” it’s when”. Somehow that put things in perspective. I need to give this man a bit more credit AND some room to breathe! LOL.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rosehill Community Center

Oh man, I am guilty too!  Although the other day, he was looking at a deals website and asked if I needed a “Bridal something set” (I’m sure it was something sexy-like), and I was like “BRIDAL?!  Is there something I don’t know?” and he was like “oops, I was wondering if you would catch that…”  I think that was the first time he’s brought it up first, albeit kind of accidentaly!  I don’t want to be that nagging girlfriend, though, so I’m trying to cut back on my bringing up the topic… 

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Guilty as charged! So I spent last week in tears almost on a daily basis… (PMS can take the blame for that one). This week i’ve tried to keep the talk strictly non engagement, until on saturday we were looking in a jewlers window and he saw and emerald cut diamond, and asked me if i’d prefer it to the princess one we had been previously considering – well, unfortunately his attempt to reward me keeping a lid on it has back-fired – i’ve created various e-rings to compare the two… and I am ashamed to say it was the first thing I showed him when he got home from work tonight.

I WILL start afresh tomorrow, and see if I can go longer than a week. Laughing

 

P.S I know a friend who said that he waited until his SO had stopped talking about rings before proposing (little did he know that she secretly thought about it every day!)

Post # 15
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

So yesterday we got a thank you card in the mail from a wedding we attended this summer (my SO’s friend). It said “thanks for being there on our special day, it meant so much to us. Maybe soon we’ll be attending your wedding! Tick-Tock “R” (my SO).  I couldn’t help myself. I said to my SO “what a lovely thank you card! Did you read the back?” I know….I’m bad. I just couldn’t help myself Undecided.

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