(Closed) Keep me in the dark!

posted 7 years ago in Proposals
Post # 3
2891 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

My FH told me to pick out a ring in case he ever wanted to propose just a few months after we started seeing each other.  I picked one out and he waited so long it wasn’t available so he had me pick out another.  He bought that one and kept it for months before he proposed.  I was totally surprised about the when/how.( I started to think he had changed his mind.)  Downside I wore the ring a week before it broke and store wouldn’t fix/replace because we had it too long. 

Your SO can still totally surprise you.  Don’t worry men can be devious.

Post # 4
1192 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

nope sorry mine wont even let me know what ring or where he is getting it from… I am completely in the dark and I hate it.. but the Bee’s on here have mentioned that when it does happen it will be a huge surprise..   I think your SO is one of those guys that cant hide his excitement and needs to share… Hopefully he respects your wishes and doesnt tell you when it is going to happen and still surprises you…

Post # 5
5110 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

Aww I think it just sounds like he is as excited as you are!! Early congrats. 

Post # 6
490 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

My Fiance did this to me before he proposed.  I knew every step.  I think guys just get too excited and don’t have many people to tell, so they tell us about it. lol!  I didn’t mind.  The engagement was still an awesome surprise!

Post # 9
2317 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I had the same situation. I basically knew everything, even the day he was going to propose. I just looked at it like I’m his bestfriend who he just couldn’t keep a secret from. But part of me wished it was a complete surprise, although the moment itself was so it all worked out in the end. I’m sure you’ll be just as surprise too.

Oh I had no idea what the ring looked like so I was SOOO excited to see it.

Post # 10
3374 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Tell him you’re glad he’s excited, but that you want a suprise proposal and he’s starting to ruin that.

I like that he’s talking to you and is so excited!

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