- 12 years ago
- Wedding: June 2010
I wanted to get people’s opinions about an idea I had to solve my kids or no kids issue for my wedding. We are inviting about 200 adults. If we invited all kids, that would add like 30-40 people. That is way too many. The only kids I planned to have there is the flower girl and my 12yr old Jr. Bridesmaid or Best Man. The problem is if I invite no kids, there will be 2 (brother and sister ages 9 and 12) that are pretty close to us and are related to Fiance that will be hurt if they are told they can’t come. My question is, if we would involve them in a part of the wedding such as handing out programs for example, do you think this would make people mad if their own kids weren’t invited but these 2 were since they technically would not be in the wedding party? Could I get away with this without too many upset people??