Post # 1
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Bumble bee
I feel awkward asking this, but no one I know has done it and I need some opinions.
Has anyone ever made a “spank book” (that sounds so vulgar, ha, but that’s what my SO calls it) for their SO/FI/husband?
I am just kind of wondering if anyone has experience with this and what it was like. I think it would be a sexy, daring thing to do, and he would like it, but I have no idea how to go about it, or how I would manage to actually undress in front of a stranger without being completely awkward. I’m not talking straight-up pornography, just some sexy semi-nude images.
Thoughts? Ideas? Advice? It would all be greatly appreciated 😀
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
You mean like a Boudoir shoot ?
Lots of blogger Bees and board Bees have done it, plug it into the search box 🙂
Post # 4
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Sugar bee
Ha! I’ve never heard it called a spank book!! Too funny. I’ve thought about this too, but do you have to be in amazing shape to do it? I think it’s a fun idea but I wouldn’t want to have my wiggly parts looking too jiggly, if you know what I mean…
Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
@jjmomma: A good photographer will capture angles and make lighting that are totally flattering on ANY shape ! They also can throw a little photo shop in their too 😉
Post # 6
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Bumble bee
@Eva Peron: Oh gosh, thanks for the terminology, I feel kind of like an idiot now. I’m going to go ahead and search that and check everything out. Thank you!
Post # 7
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Honey bee
haha! Spank Book is a very old fashioned term. Don’t feel like an idiot, I tried to look up the same concept once on Google and what a mistake that was! Search Boudoir…it will be less traumatic.
Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper
@HeyKaraoke: no problem, its all new to me too 🙂 For a second, I thought a spank book might be like something like a coupon book for hanky-panky type favors 😉 lol
Post # 9
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Sugar bee
LOL! At first I thought you were trying to say “Smack Book” and was really confused why you would want to make one of THOSE for your fiance!
(For those who don’t know, a Smack Book is a notebook filled with mean and nasty things about various people, kind of like the notebook in “Mean Girls”)
Post # 10
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Busy bee
I did a boudoir shoot for my man and wrote a few posts about it here, here and here. I was ridiculously nervous at first, but it ended up being a lot of fun!
Post # 11
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Honey bee
You will find lots of posts about boudoir shoots!! From what I read, you can find photographers that come to your home and make you really comfortable and look sexy without having to even take off all of your clothes.