(Closed) Kind of a SPIN-OFF…Is he out of your league?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Is he out of your league?
    NO WAY! The day he met me was the luckiest day of his life! : (29 votes)
    27 %
    Yes. I lucked out for sure. : (22 votes)
    21 %
    We are even :-) : (55 votes)
    51 %
    I want to elaborate on something (below) : (1 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
    1068 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    Interesting question, because are you referring to looks or the whole package? I think when guys are talking about women, they mainly stick to looks, but as women we talk about the whole package.

    If you’re talking whole package, I guess we’re pretty even, but most of the time I feel like he’s way out of my league.

    Post # 4
    515 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    In looks I think we are pretty well matched. For non-appearance related things, sometimes I feel like he is a bit out of my league. He is very accomplished in his career, in academia, and in pretty much every hobby he has. He is one of those people who has never failed at anything and excels at anything he is interested in. He is well liked and respected by everyone. It’s very hard to compete with that. I do feel lucky to have someone who is so intelligent, hard working, and self-motivated and I’m glad he knows my worth without me having to prove myself or compete with him in any way. So outside of looks, he is probably out of my league, so I voted the second option.

    Post # 5
    5428 posts
    Bee Keeper

    My SO is just perfect! He is a little bit of a hoarder and workaholic… and does clean and cooks and pampers me… I should be doing more for him!

    Post # 6
    1061 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    No, I would say we are evenly matched, both in terms of looks and accomplishments.

    Post # 7
    2906 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I think we both lucked out! He is incredible in so many ways, and the first time I saw him, I definitely thought, “Oh, he is so out of my league!” But I can also see the ways that I make his life better, so I think it’s a draw. 🙂

    Post # 8
    5221 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I think we are very evenly matched but we both upgraded when we met each other!

    Post # 9
    1402 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    Nope, we are very evenly matched (although I think we both think we came out better in the end).  (:

    Post # 10
    5093 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 2012

    In terms of looks, we’re about even.  When talking about the whole package, though, I definitely lucked out.

    Post # 11
    123 posts
    Blushing bee

    We are about even in looks, but he has accomplished so much more than me. He has a better job,college education,cars, house, and lifestyle than me.That is hands down.We are both definitely a step up from our exes( We know our exes, that is how me met also, lol)

    Post # 12
    3357 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    in looks, I’m told that I’m out of his league. personality, we’re pretty even.

    Post # 13
    2808 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Especially with all of the travelling he’s had to do lately (makes me miss him more), I can’t believe I got so damn lucky!

    Post # 14
    4416 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I don’t think any other woman on earth would have the patience to deal with Darling Husband on a daily basis, so in that sense he’s very lucky … but damn if he ain’t a looker, so I put up with him Wink  I guess he has some other good qualities too … I guess …

    Post # 15
    6248 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 1900

    We’ve been together for 8 years and when we first started dating he was sooooo shy.  My friends and family have mentioned a few times that I brought him out of his shell because I’m well, not shy.  Sometimes he and I talk about where we would be if we hadn’t started dating or stayed together this long.  He says he would probably be living in his mother’s basement playing video games without any friends because he wouldn’t have me to break him out of his shy phase.  So we are from different leagues in that aspect at least.

    Post # 16
    576 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I think he is out of my league as far as looks, but he is definitely out of my league as far as personality.

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