(Closed) Kinda freaking out

posted 9 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

((HUGS)) Everything will be fine, soon you will be here and in J’s arms.  Just in the words of whitley gilbert wayne RELAX.RELATE.RELEASE.

I totally get anxious before a big event as well. I am sort of glad Christmas is over etc. I cannot imagine how crazy I’ll be before I get married (OMG!!)

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

@DD – HUGS!!!! I can totally understand – 30 hours is a loooong time and you’re a much braver woman than I, but you will be fine! The end result will be so worth it. I’m so glad you get to spend so much time with J!! πŸ™‚

I lived in DC a million years ago (okay, 13 years ago, close enough) and I really loved to go to Georgetown and old town Alexandria. DC has a metro system so you’ll be fine getting around to the tourist attractions by yourself. If I lived there, I would totally meet up with you!!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

Eeep! There’s no way I could get my bag down to 40 lbs! Ha, or… all three bags, that is…. I guess I better not travel very far! That sucks. πŸ™

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I’m sorry about the travel restrictions πŸ™ 40lbs. is INSANE. As to the long flight…I hear you!!!  Buy a trashy book or drink some wine – and try to deny how many hours you’ve been in the sky!

Staying in a city you’ve never been in before might actually help you with the culture shock.  The first time I went back it had been 15 months and seeing my hometown that I was very familiar with was really odd.  But another time I flew into New York and it was good because it was kind of familiar in terms of culture, but the landscape was different enough that there wasn’t a huge disconnect.

But no matter what…just focus on…HIM! You are going to visit your love for 7 weeks!!!!!  I hope you have a safe and not too inconvenient flight and a great time reconnecting with everyone at home!

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

awww…you’ll be ok hun…just take some deep breaths…i am way nervous every single time i get on a plane but I take some deep breaths and while i’m still nervous a bit …it does help.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

daydreamwanderer – Good luck to you!  I’m not going to sugarcoat your 30 hours of flying – that is rough.  HOWEVER, as far as being in a new place and feeling crazed… First and foremost you will be in a familiar place – your SO’s arms!  Concentrate on that and you can get through anything.  Goodnight and good luck!

Post # 12
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

It’ll be AWESOME! Take a good book or a small DVD player. Maybe stock up on some magazines you want to read but don’t usually let yourself (for me, that’s smut, lol). Once you get to DC, it’ll be amazing and you’ll never want to go back! Just relax, enjoy your vacation while he’s at work, explore the city. DC is very easy to get around by yourself. Use your student ID to go to some free or cheaper museums and aquariums. Honestly i think the space during teh day will be good. When you are LDR then see each other all day/everyday (so, if your Fiance didn’t have to work, too), then it makes it tougher to get along….9it’s like too much, too fast. Maybe you can even meet him for lunch!

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

@DD: I can’t even imagine flying that far, but at least what is waiting on the other side is WELL worth it! You are going to have so much fun – hopefully the flight will just…err…fly by. πŸ™‚

Post # 14
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Helper bee

Those long flights are interminable, but hopefully the time will give you something of a cultural buffer between where you’re coming from and where you’re going.  I’ve lived in DC, and here are some ideas:   

  • DC is great for museums, as all the Smithsonians are free and easy to access by metro.The Portrait Gallery in particular is in a very happening neighborhood (by DC standards) and there’s a great cupcake place across the street called Red Velvet.  You can bring food into a huge, gorgeous atrium inside the museum, which is a very nice way to spend the afternoon by yourself. 
  • If you want to go shopping at an American mall, the Pentagon City metro stop has an escalator straight into a huge mall. 
  • Georgetown is an historic neighborhood that’s also great for shopping, I like going to the Dean and Deluca’s down M Street and have a coffee in their little covered patio area. 
  • At 6pm every night there’s a free performance at the Kennedy Center, near the Foggy Bottom metro, which would be a great place to go kill some time before your fiance gets home from the office. 

I’m sure your fiance will have plenty more neighborhood favorites for you, but DC is a great place to entertain yourself for the day.  Just ask him for guidance on which neighborhoods not to wander into, because sometimes the city gets a little rough very quickly and, with it getting dark at 4:45pm these days, you don’t want to feel unsafe.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

Take it one day at a time! I get antsy (read: panicky) before air travel too. Just remember to breathe! And try telling yourself that worrying about it will not change what happens (i.e., won’t improve anything). Sometimes realizing that’s true helps me to calm down and realize the ridiculousness of worrying. Also, you will be able to do laundry while you are here! So you will manage to live with the 40 lbs. Just bring lots of stuff to layer, because it’s really cold here right now.

Also, I live in DC! We can hang out. Send me a PM.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

HEy Daydream dont worry!!! Things will be OK! And you are seeing the love of your life so just keep that in the back of your mind!!! I live right outside DC in NoVA and would love to show you around if you get lonely! Please PM me if you would like!!!

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