- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
Ok, So I’m trying to convince myself that I want to send this girl an invite to the wedding because I am being a nice person. But, I know that part of me just wants to send it to be mean and vindictive. And I’m not usually that kind of person.
A little background.
This girl (M) was like my best friend in high school. She was dating (R) pretty much all through high school until her senior year. She told all of us that R was horrible to her and would hit her and cuss at her. We all hated him. I moved away for a year and came back. Me and M started hanging out again. She was now dating one of my best friends (J). J and R used to be friends until J started dating M. M told me that she feels wierd because R was still talking to her and trying to get with her almost borderline stalking. We came up with this plan to invite R over and I was gunna mess with him and pretty much break him down. (I know, I know, I was mean back then. This was in 2007. Don’t worry I’m getting to the point here soon)
I ended up talking to R in depth. We ended up dating. I found out everything M said about R was all bold face lies. She just did it for the attention. She started to do the same thing about J. I know my best friend would never do any of the things she said he was doing.
One time, a month after R and I started dating, M told me “I just don’t feel right with this. I still have feelings for him.” She was with J! For 2 years by now!
Over the next few years, J and M were on again and off again. Anytime they were off M was vindictive and would talk so much crap about me.
One of the times that they were “on” She was talking to J’s mom about me (while I 5 months pregnant and was outside with R, J, and another friend) She had the nerve to tell J’s mom she was going to come out and beat my a$$. She called me all sorts of names. J’s mom is a wonderful woman and has known me for years. She jumped down M’s throat telling her if you go out there and touch her I will hurt you myself, and that is if I can get past all of those guys out there to get to you first. (R, J, and the other friend would have probably hurt her pretty badly.) J didn’t find out about this till later. He broke up with her after that. But to my face she is the sweetest person.
So, R and I are getting married next year. The part of me that wishes to be nice wants to send her an invitation because if it wasn’t for her R and I would not be together. The vindictive person in me wants to rub it in her face that I’m getting married and I’m happy. So go ahead, tell me I’m a horribe person. But I just ha to get that off my chest.