(Closed) Kinda hurt… am I crazy?

posted 6 years ago in Photos/Videos
  • poll: Am I overthinking?
    Yes : (123 votes)
    95 %
    No : (7 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2014

    I remember seeing your e-pics a while back and they’re nice! So I doubt it has anything to do with you or your pictures, probably just that your photographer does tons of shoots and can’t add all of them. Most likely there are at least several other couples out there that aren’t on there either. 

    Post # 5
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    If its bothering you enough then ask.

    Post # 6
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    Busy bee

    I’m the queen of anxiety and working myself into a frenzy over little things – so this would drive me CRAZY! I would assume as PP said that you’re not the only couple that hasn’t been posted, and try your best to move on. In the grand scheme of things, this isn’t a big deal! 🙂

    Post # 7
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    @hiroshymatetrastar:  I’m sure it’s nothing personal.  My guess is that there are other couples they haven’t put up that you are unaware of.  Also, you never know what their reasons are.  It could be anything from they haven’t gotten to it yet to they are saving them for sometime when things are slow to have an update for their page.  It really isn’t anything personal against you.

    Post # 8
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    How do you know they post *every* single shoot they do?  Do you know their schedule?  I’d just try to let it go, you have pictures you love, what’s it matter if she puts them up?

    Post # 10
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    424 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - Muckenthaler Cultural Center

    It’s okay, I felt the same way!

    Post # 11
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I do think you are overthinking it. It’s possible since they got married shortly after yours they just never got around to it.

    I have one friend who is a wedding photographer and she is in demand now and she no longer is able to post all of them online esp if it’s wedding season. I would let it go. Unless it’s part of your package to have it posted on facebook.

    Post # 12
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I do think this is a little silly, but if it was really bugging you, the furthest I would go is emailing them and saying “Thanks again for the photos – they are so beautiful! I can’t wait for them to be on Facebook so I can share with all my friends and family. I want to link to them from your page so you get credit and hopefully referrals :)”

    I wouldn’t do that, but I think it would be an okay way to approach it. If they really meant to leave you off, they’ll ignore it. If it was an accident, they’ll go “Oh gosh, sorry, we forgot!” and add them.

    Assuming they are photographing your wedding as well, so I wouldn’t get too pushy or bent out of shape about it.

    Post # 13
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2015

    Maybe you photographer is going for a specific kind of look or artistic style, and your personal shoot didn’t match theirs?

    Post # 14
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    Busy bee

    We do not have time to publish everything we shoot, plus some times we hang onto things so we have good stuff to post when things quiet down in the winter or if we plan to try to have it published in a magazine/blog. I really would not take it personal.

    Post # 15
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I would ask them if the could post some pics so your FB friends can see.  Unless its just an issue of WHY they havent done it, not that they havent done it.

    If its bothering you why they didnt post, honestly they probably forgot. Seriously.

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