(Closed) kinda sad for my FH – no bachelor party?

posted 8 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: would you throw your FH a bachelor party?
    nah - thats the GM job, so if they arent doing it then oh well... : (12 votes)
    35 %
    ask your FH what he thinks.... : (15 votes)
    44 %
    sure - he would apprieciate it... : (7 votes)
    21 %
  • Post # 3
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Could you mention doing one to the GM? Suggest they go for a golf day or something. If they seem hesitant, you could offer to make the reservations maybe?

    Post # 4
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    Bumble Beekeeper

    that really stinks! are his groomsmen local?

    I bet we could find 25 DC SOs and make them throw him the most awkward man-date ever 😉

    Post # 5
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    FH is just going golfing with 4 friends! They are staying the night at course he normally would never play at because its $$$$$. He came up with the idea himself.

    Post # 6
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I’m sure if he wanted to do something he would have told them that. Maybe he doesn’t want one or doesn’t care. I’d ask him first.

    Post # 8
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    My family and I were going to- do what makes you and Fiance happy.  No shame, it is a great idea.

    Post # 9
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    My Fiance didn’t have a bachelor party because his friends are so unorganized…He didn’t want a stripper and I guess they couldn’t think of anything else, so they planned nothing. They did however call him the night before,”kidnapped” him from our hotel and got him drunk, because everyone had flown in or drove for the wedding and was staying at a nearby hotel. I wasn’t happy about the timing because we had planned to spend the night together, but glad that he got to do something fun. Maybe you can hint at his friends to do the same?

    Post # 11
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    @spaganya: Well maybe see if you can talk to the best man about it. It’s not like they have to “plan” anything, really they could just go out to dinner and then out to a bar afterwards.

    Post # 13
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    Bumble Beekeeper

    @spaganya: J’s friends always go kayaking (and often overnight camping) for bachelor parties. For his there wasn’t time to overnight (we were only in Michigan a week and had appointments with vendors or family every day), so they kayaked, mini golfed and then played poker and drank beer and ate brownies that my Maid/Matron of Honor (BM’s wife) made. 🙂 My bachelorette was the same night, so it worked out pretty well for every (except maybe my poor overworked Maid/Matron of Honor… who basically planned both parties, haha)

    Post # 15
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Fiance almost didn’t have one. There was a lot of family drama and his best man who is his brother wasn’t talking to him and my brother totally dropped the ball so I actually mentioned it to a couple of his buddies. They ended up going to gold, lunch, went back to someone’s house for beers, and then to the strip club. I was glad that he did something.

    Post # 16
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    my FH friends are trying to convince him to do something he really isnt interested in… so i’m taking him on a weekend trip to Orlando to check out hollywood horror nights.

    hes a huge horror fan, and hes way more interested in this then what they were discussing.

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