- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2014 - Merritt Winery
Greets, Bees! So DH did something kinda cute last night and it got me thinking. I don’t really know what the point of this post is yet…maybe I will figure that out as I type!
This is kind of a spinoff from another thread that I was reading recently. There was a guy who posted about how his SO is still looking at rings on the Bee even though he proposed and got her a beautiful ring. He ended his post by asking how to get her to stop looking at rings on the Bee. Not really sure if he was serious, but something DH said last night got me thinking about it…
I am always looking at sparklies here. DH glances over my shoulder from time-to-time and sees me looking. He’ll ask what I’m looking at and I tell him (“oh, I’m just looking at this gorgeous stack” ; or “oh, I’m just drooling over this spakly moissy”. Last night, I was showing DH a thin stacking ring that I got from Berricle. I bought the ring to stack with another thin band and my e-ring. When he saw it, he said that it was a pretty stack…he actually said stack. It gave me pause that he actually paid attention to jewelry terminology. He’s so not a jewelry guy.
I kind of giggled and told him about the guy’s post about how he wanted his SO to stop looking at rings on the Bee. He then said that if it’s important to me, it’s worth his paying attention to and that he doesn’t mind at all that I’m constantly looking at rings.
Well, I still don’t have a point, really! Do your SOs know that you are constantly looking at rings? Does it bother them? I feel like I can’t talk about rings in my real life like I can here , so it was nice that DH noticed and didn’t view it as negative.