(Closed) Kinda upset (venting)

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Should I be upset

    You are right, she should have rethought her date

    Let it go, they don't matter

    You are being ridiculous and should just be happy for her

    Other (please explain)

  • Post # 32
    1626 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    How many people are we talking about?

    Post # 34
    1093 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Do you have anything booked? 2014 is so afar away, that if i were you, i’d move my date up by 4 months!   It would serve her right for trying to ruin your big day.

    Post # 35
    9916 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

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    @RobandLil0107:  That’s how many people you’re inviting, or how many people will not be able to attend your wedding because of your sister’s?

    Post # 37
    2701 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

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    @RobandLil0107:  This is her second marriage to the same guy. They already had the dream wedding, cheated on each other got divorced, seperated for a few years and are now back together,


    Say what!?  I am surprised people would pick her wedding over yours.  I still stand that she shouldn’t have to wait until after you are married to have her wedding, BUT I think it’s in very, very poor taste to have a big second wedding when you are marrying the same person.  A small private ceremony with no pressure on guests is ok, but I get the feeling that’s not what’s happening…

    Post # 38
    1695 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    This is a crazy situation OP!  I would be extremely  upset if my sister did this to me.  Based on the way she has responded to things, it almost seems as if she is TRYING to hurt you.  I hope you are able to work something out!

    Post # 39
    1524 posts
    Bumble bee

    Your sister sounds like a bitch. I’m sorry. I think moving your wedding to the east coast would definitely be the best, that way you can have everyone at your wedding and I’m sure they’d appreciate not having to travel! I don’t know how they could choose her wedding over yours anyway though.

    Post # 40
    257 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    The more you post the more upset I get for you!

    I don’t have any new advice beyond what others have said.  I’m sorry but that just is so mean what your sister said.  If it were me, she should be worried… payback’s a b*ch as they say 😉 

    Post # 41
    2491 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I’m going to ruin the empathy and say you get one day, not 17 months. I’m guessing if she gets married within 6 months of you, there will be the same issue, and it’s unfair to say she can’t get married for two years!

    This is the unfortunate reality sometimes of long engagements.

    Post # 42
    162 posts
    Blushing bee

    I would be absolutely livid. She’s done this on purpose even though she knows it’ll ruin your wedding. I’d seriously consider not speaking to her again, sister or not. Also I’d move my wedding date to the weekend before hers, just to spite her.

    Post # 44
    521 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012 - Salvage One, Chicago

    Wow, 2nd marriage, to the same guy…I would NOT make a trip for that, or even give a gift, if I gave them one when they first got married.  Someone should bring up that fact to your sis- and then maybe it’ll dampen her enthusiasm for a wedding all together.

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